One-night stand, as the name suggests, refers to a love affair that occurs overnight, but can real feelings be produced in one night? A friend who once had a one-night stand told reporters that he believes in the beauty of love at first sight, and will only have a relationship with the other person when he has feelings for him. He believes that although this kind of emotion is not as deep as what lovers accumulate over the years, But that short-lived passion is unforgettable.

But when reporters interviewed most people who had one-night stands, their starting point was not feelings. Some people were looking for sustenance and excitement out of emptiness and loneliness, and some people were purely out of satisfying physiological needs. Chen Huan, a college graduate, said that after experiencing a one-night stand, she felt even more empty and felt at a loss. She vowed at that time never to do such stupid things again. Mr. Zhang, who teaches at a university in Guangzhou, said bluntly: "One-night stand is not a kind of love, it is just an impulse, a vent, a kind of vanity and satisfaction after conquest."

It is undeniable that some people put real feelings into it, and some even have real love affairs, but this does not mean that emotion takes the dominant position in one-night stands. Regarding one-night stands, the famous American sociologist John K.C. has a penetrating explanation. He pointed out: "One-night stands are mainly based on the animal attraction between men and women. The hero and heroine consider more non-social characteristics such as the appearance and body of the other party. factors, while ignoring the main factors that lovers should pay attention to when getting along, such as character, quality, cultivation, etc. In this sense, one-night stand is a manifestation of social regression and a kind of degradation of humans into animals." It can be seen that one-night stand. The element of cheating is minimal.

What does one-night stand bring?

There is no doubt that one-night stand can bring physical pleasure to both men and women, and can relieve the pressure and mental tension in life. But the various negative consequences it brings at the same time cannot be ignored.

The proliferation of one-night stands will inevitably lead to the proliferation of sexually transmitted diseases. According to a survey in Hong Kong, due to the sudden nature of one-night stands, most men and women do not take necessary safety measures when having relations. This makes The possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases is greatly increased. The United Nations Health Organization announced a shocking statistic in late November: the number of people infected with AIDS worldwide has reached 36 million, and there is an upward trend, of which Asia accounts for 1/6, while previously maintaining "zero AIDS" Records show that the situation in China has not been optimistic since the first case of AIDS was discovered 15 years ago. The Guangdong Provincial Department of Health held a special press conference on November 27. The number of HIV-infected people in Guangdong Province has ranked fourth in the country, with more than 20,000 people. Unclean sexual intercourse is one of the main ways to spread AIDS.

In addition, one-night stands have a new impact on people's sexual concepts and also bring crisis to the traditional family model. Dr. Zou Weizhong from the Department of Philosophy of Sun Yat-sen University pointed out that family is the most basic form of social structure, and family stability is one of the necessary conditions for social stability and prosperity. The essence of a one-night stand is infidelity to a spouse, which is a subversion of the traditional family model. The final result of one-night stand is to affect the stability of society. He said that the characteristics of one-night stand, which values ​​sex over love, are destined to be an abnormal sexual orientation. The biggest negative consequence of casual sexual concepts to young people is that they lose their sense of responsibility. If the young generation of a country generally lacks a sense of responsibility, Then the future of this country is very dangerous.

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