Now more and more women can share the household expenses equally with men, which is good, but I think doing your own job is still 60% good, and keeping the house tidy is 70%, 80-90% It is good to pay attention to the man's work and interests. If you have the opportunity, ask the man about his profession and what he is knowledgeable about. He will communicate with you and have a long chat with you.

1. Let’s talk about love first:

I have seen some stories about houses and money, and I always find it strange why people can put their love on material things. Love is not demanding material things, like our first love in school, stinky tofu for 5 cents, and egg fried rice for 2.5 yuan. It is because we have love in our hearts that we feel the fragrance, not because of the stinky tofu and fried rice. The love in your heart will depend on how much it grows. Today’s girls have too many demands on men. Although men have to support the family, they are the backbone of the family. He can support you. He does not ask you to beg. You can be with him. Living more like you, freer, more lovely, and more comfortable is happiness. In fact, a large part of it is psychological factors. It has basically nothing to do with how big a house you live in or what car you drive.

2. Talking about the relationship with men:

How to keep it fresh? I am young now and have no experience, but I have been in love with my boyfriend for 8 years and lived together for 3 years (I don’t want to get married) , planning to get married at the age of 29). I used to be afraid of how to keep a man’s eyes on you and how to make a man love you like he did when he was passionately in love. Now I understand. I wonder if the big brothers and sisters here will agree. In fact, , let him go, and find more meaningful things for yourself that can enrich your life, and you will find that the person who loves you will still love you the same no matter how busy or late he comes back. You don’t need to rush to know him every day. Where are you, who are you with? Because you have things to do that you are still busy with. When he comes back at 8 o'clock, you are still working out. When he comes back at 10 o'clock, you are still taking a bath. Where do you have leisure time? No matter so many things, you have to make yourself live a happy and comfortable life, like a little fairy. When a man comes back and feels the warmth of home, he will easily go to other women? This is your feminine charm that attracts him, not others. of.

3. Self-improvement is very important:

Nowadays, more and more women can share the household expenses equally with men, which is very good, but I think it is better to do your own work well. 60% is good, 70% is to tidy up the home, and 80-90% is to pay attention to the man's work and interests. If you have the opportunity, ask the man about his profession and what he knows about, he will communicate with you and talk to you. If you talk for a long time, you can get into his heart, you can be friends with him, and he likes to share his happiness with you. I think this is what those little girls should focus on learning. It is very hard for a person to take care of you all his life. , don’t always think that if you like watching soap operas, a man should always accommodate you. You can try 50% of the chances of him watching football. If you watch 50% of soap operas, you will find that you have a higher chance of occupying the TV than others. He is much older, so you should let him go shopping by yourself. Maybe you can convince him to pay for you, because he is so happy that you let him, haha; this is about humility and concern.

4. Sex:

Every couple has different conflicts. Men like to come fast and women come slowly. So, has the person you love heard from you that you like to come slowly? Again For difficult issues, communication is the most important; for example, if you are not satisfied, you can consider masturbating. There is nothing wrong with this. God helps those who help themselves. If your man has been particularly stressed at work recently and has not been there for 15 days, or longer, for the sake of family harmony , I suggest you masturbate, this is much better than cheating, don’t be embarrassed, choose your favorite porn, or other devices, and make yourself comfortable when he is busy. You must know that women are not satisfied with sex. The mistakes you make are far bigger than masturbating, haha, and your mood is so bad that you look at everyone and feel that others owe you money. You can completely change this situation by yourself. Of course, it's best to keep it a secret. Sometimes you can mention it to the man appropriately at that time. You have to be careful at that time. Otherwise, he will think that there is something wrong with his body, which is a matter of dignity. Then you will have to solve a more difficult problem. ;

5. Self-examination is very important:

Everyone has shortcomings. Nowadays, men and women like to focus on others to find problems when they have problems. In fact, for marriage, experience and The principles are all discovered by oneself, just like study and work. Do you want to get a high salary without working hard? Impossible. Do you want to be happy without constantly learning lessons? Then you will die. We all know that love and Marriage is two different things, study hard. This is also the purpose of my coming to Siege City. Be prepared for danger in times of peace, be prepared for a rainy day, and maintain beauty and competitiveness. I think if you do it, if the current man doesn't like you, you can still have your own choice. As for mixing it very much.

6. Make more staged requests to men:

Men like to provide women with services and help within their capabilities. For example, when he has 20W, you can ask him for a Diamond ring, I think he will be happy to agree, but don’t ask for too much, it is not practical. He can’t afford a house, then you can ask to rent a better house, and then you can live more comfortably. I think men actually have inner The reason why he is happy is because his beloved is happy, not because he is treated as a money-making machine.

7. Family:

Of course, this issue is very complicated. When I was 22 years old, I was so stupid that I had a quarrel with my BF and asked his mother to talk to him. Now the principle is: do what the next generation should do. If it's too much, just pretend it didn't happen. Don't worry about money or anything like that. Really, the more you worry about it, the harder it will be. Just keep an eye on your own pocket. Really, let your boyfriend's pocket go. It's always smart. People have a degree of tolerance. If you argue with someone who can't figure it out, you won't be able to figure it out. The worst-case scenario is that your boyfriend will work with his mother, so what? People are in a relationship for 20 or 30 years. How long have you been together? Oh my God, you want others to be unfilial? It doesn’t make sense.

In fact, life is hard to explain at once, it is very trivial. Remember this sentence: You must be yourself first, then your wife, children, etc..., you must ask clearly what you need in your heart.

A woman has no reason not to love herself

Today I was making tea and chatting with a friend, a fellow colleague of mine, whom I met for the first time. When I first met her, I felt that she was not very old, at least younger than me. Unexpectedly, after talking about it, I found out that she was two years older than me. It was really shameful. When I saw her, I was shocked to realize that I had treated myself so badly.

People say that a 30-year-old woman can live a very youthful life, not to mention that she is still far away from this hurdle, so she should not be called old. But today, with her advice, I discovered that my formerly shiny skin had dulled and lost its original elasticity. Slight lines could be seen at the corners of my eyes, my eyebrows were no longer high and energetic, and bloodshot eyes could still be seen (recently, I always see bloodshot eyes). Insomnia and staying up late), in short, poor energy. In addition, I was dressed in plain casual clothes and rolled up in the executive chair, conveying to her the message that I was already showing my age. She said that only when I smile can I see the youthfulness that matches my age. Look at her, who is two years older than me. Her skin is delicate and shiny, she is lightly powdered, her eyes are full of eyes, her hair is permed with the latest digital technology, and she is wearing a turquoise dress with a smaller and tighter body. Why? Everything looks fresh and pleasant.

In contrast, I was saying sorry to myself. Yes, in the past few years, due to unexpected changes, I resolutely embarked on the road of business, struggling hard to gain a place in the business world. I once lost 15 pounds in one and a half months, and often lost weight three times in a row. I only sleep less than 10 hours a day, and often don’t eat a proper meal a day. In order to rush for time, sometimes I just wipe my face with water and don’t apply anything, leaving my skin exposed to the scorching sun. I come back after a tiring day. I went to bed without thinking of taking care of my skin after a busy day like mine. Staying up late was a common occurrence, which was overdrafting the body's resources. I had neither time nor mood to go shopping and buy two beautiful clothes for myself. I only buy them when I really need them. In the past three years, I have been wearing old clothes a lot (although the clothes are not bad or old). I am always worrying about family affairs, business, life, and even working for others... After careful calculation, I I have committed so many "sins" against myself, and I deserve "retribution". I am obviously older than my peers, in poor health, and have poor complexion. I have been suffering from gastric and duodenal ulcers. Every time it rains on cloudy days, like the current rainy season, my waist always hurts so much that I can’t straighten up. I suffer from anemia, insomnia, irritability, and lose my temper easily... which in turn makes my business more and more difficult, and causes me to grow old before my time. She looks like a little old woman. Thinking about it again, I can no longer see the look he used to look at me with, eager to swallow me in one bite...

All of this is really scary, and it really happened in Things about yourself. When did I stop caring about myself, loving myself, and taking care of myself? Am I treating myself well while teaching others, "If a woman doesn't love herself, who will?" Looking at myself today, I have to admit that I have not loved myself properly.

Thinking of this, I burst into tears, tears of bitterness and regret. Yes, life has given me a lot of ups and downs, and also given me a lot of inner things that my peers don’t have, but I have only learned how to fight the ups and downs and how to deal with the problems in life, but I have ignored that I must first What you have to learn is to love yourself well. Only when you are well, have a healthy body, a good mental state, and a beautiful external image to ensure that the "revolutionary capital" is not lost, everything is possible.

Women, you should stop being sad about things that are not worth it, and stop doing stupid things that hurt yourself. There is no need to be foolish because of love, or to be tired due to too much pursuit of material things. Life has its own destiny, don't be too persistent, smile calmly, don't go too far, come back often to see yourself. Really, there is no reason for women not to love themselves.

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