The author often exchanges experiences with girls in their early twenties. The results show that the new generation of women are better than the generation over 35 years old in terms of verbal expression and actions regarding sex. Due to their actual personal experience, they sometimes raise surprising doubts about "theoretical" assumptions.

Once in a group discussion with several people, a girl said directly that she felt that her lust was very strong, and sometimes she would have a romantic night with a man she had just met. And she always carries a condom with her, looking forward to any love events that may happen at any time. If a month has passed and the condom is still no longer useful, she will give it to a "useful" friend to express the meaning of "not wasting time".

Such a statement made me, a woman who spent my adolescence under martial law, immediately and casually retort: ​​"If you want to sleep with a stranger, you might as well masturbate to satisfy your sexual desire." As a result, all the little girls present said in unison: "That's different!" Such a direct refutation made me, a thirty-five-year-old woman, speechless. I was neither a virgin nor married. I didn't realize that masturbation was "different" from real intercourse. Isn't it quite strange?

The "masturbation theory", which was regarded as a great discovery by sociologists and military training instructors more than ten years ago, has been completely denied by the younger generation. This conversation made the author discover that lust is also an ideology, and it deeply controls everyone's sexual behavior. Sometimes sexual ideology can even replace instinct to activate lust, and replace the body to express the satisfaction of pleasure.

${FDPageBreak}When he was "confessed" by a little girl at the age of thirty-five, it felt like he was in a different world. The difference of only fifteen years was so different. Our generation seeks liberation because it is suppressed, but it still often wanders between theory and practice, and is usually unable to break free from the shackles of fully internalized sexual ideology.

As for the new generation, they have the courage to try erotic adventures and replace the pursuit of liberation theory with practical actions, because their repression is relatively small. When the author was interviewing a little girl about her "affair", she witnessed her boyfriend listening to her description silently and peacefully. Her boyfriend at that time was both uncomfortable and "normal". Such a "surreal" new relationship between men and women, he said. This is actually the first time I discovered it.

Another girl who just graduated from college said that she has had experiences with five men. The most unforgettable one was a physical game with a plumber who came to work at home. She said that that day, the plumber The "special service" given to her by the workers was something she would never forget. In addition, two female friends from the same class invited another high school male classmate for a long trip one day. As a result, after drinking in the hotel, their lust became so high that the male classmate actually asked for a "three-person game." As a result, one of the female classmates rejected her, and the other girl who acquiesced to the "threesome" lost four years of friendship with her classmates.

The above-mentioned "field survey" on the sexual attitudes of the younger generation conducted by the author has clearly shown that the new generation uses brave reality to construct a new relationship between the sexes. This situation may not be common or complete, but it is definitely in line with the previous generation. Different. When asked if they want to get married in the future, most of them said they want to have children and are not opposed to getting married, but they don't want to be with their significant other every day. In other words, they have lost confidence in the relationship between unrelated couples.

If the sexual desire of middle-aged men and women over the age of 35 is deliberately controlled by the martial law system, then the sexual desire of men and women under the age of 25 is nothing more than over-exploitation and commodification by capitalism. of consumer goods.

"Being loved" has become an expensive "brand-name product" in modern society. In order to obtain the high-end product of "being loved", many young people have to pay a high physical price "including sexually transmitted diseases and abortion". They use Another new set of sexual desire ideologies in capital society strives to exude the greatest erotic possibilities of human beings.

Varied sexual desires between men and women have always existed in the history of sex, but humans have never been able to find a proper balance between men and women. That is why the handling of male and female desires, sex and sexual behavior have always been the most fundamental issues for people. .

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