The high frequency of sex between men and women indicates that both parties are in good health and energetic. Especially young lovers, when they first get together, they are full of passion and can do it many times a night without feeling tired. But what everyone may not know is that frequent sex at night can cause a rapid decrease in the energy of men and women, which will have a huge impact on the health of both parties!

Having sex multiple times a night can have a huge impact on your body

Q: My sex life with my wife is pretty good. My wife sometimes asks me to have sex once or twice a night. I'm worried that frequent ejaculation will have an impact on my kidneys, but my wife doesn't believe me. Should I exercise moderation?

A: Whether you can ejaculate multiple times in one night is related to your body, age, mood, environment and the attractiveness of the other person. Some people are healthy even if they ejaculate multiple times a night, while others feel tired after ejaculating once. It depends on the specific situation. From the perspective of Western medicine, multiple ejaculations do no harm to the kidneys, but attention should be paid to the impact on the mind and nervous system. It seems like a person is about to fall asleep, but still reluctantly has sex. Lack of energy may cause erection difficulties, which can lead to anxiety. It's okay to adjust it once in a while, but if you do it regularly, it may further cause adverse effects on endocrine, cardiovascular, prostate and digestive tract, and people will also age easily.

Abstinence is mainly for people whose body is damaged due to indulgence. It does not need to be emphasized for couples with normal sexual frequency and good health. For a healthy couple's sexual life, both parties should try their best to explore "common interests" so that sex can not harm the body, but also meet the needs of both parties and promote the relationship between the couple. When the wife needs to have sex multiple times, the husband can make some "tactical adjustments."

For example, if you originally have sex on Monday and Thursday, in order to have more sex at one time, you can change the schedule for Thursday to Saturday, so that you can ensure sleep and recharge before; another example is the first time Just let the wife have an orgasm. When the wife is satisfied, she will naturally not be in a hurry to ask her husband to "make up lessons"; if the wife needs it again a few hours after the climax, the husband should rest quickly after sex, and do not pay attention to the afterplay, nor should he Do other things to prepare for the next time. But from another point of view, the wife should be more tolerant. She should restrain herself when she sees her husband's listlessness the next day after having sex continuously, and must not "kill the goose that lays the goose to get the egg."

“Often when a man ejaculates, the woman has not yet reached orgasm, so some women will ask for it multiple times. Husbands must understand that it takes a long time for their wives to reach orgasm, and it is best to control their own speed according to the other person’s rhythm. Like sex Transferring fantasies, changing body postures, controlling the degree of emotional involvement, adjusting the frequency of movements, etc. are all effective ways to improve premature ejaculation."

In fact, whether multiple ejaculations in one night will affect health problems is related to a person's physical fitness, as well as his emotional and mental state. If a person is forced to ejaculate multiple times without doing what he can, Naturally, this state of sexual life does not bring happiness, but harm.

Sexual satisfaction is not only related to time

Since there is a big gap in time between the generation of sexual satisfaction between men and women, the arousal of women’s sexual excitement requires a longer process. If sexual foreplay is ignored or is insufficient, the sexual life time is short, and sexual stimulation If the intensity is not enough, if the man only follows his instinctive impulse to have sex, there may be an embarrassing scene where the man ejaculates and the sex is over before the woman has time to enter the state.

It is normal if you can last 2 to 6 minutes from the beginning to the end of sexual intercourse. Thinking that others can last for a long time, and feeling that your lover is not as good as others in comparison, you will have doubts or dissatisfaction with his ability. Every time you act, you will be troubled by "will he have premature ejaculation, will I have an orgasm?" It will put you in a negative emotion of expectant anxiety, which may be the main reason why "the more you desire, the more you don't get it." Every man is very sensitive to his own performance. Once he knows your evaluation of him, it may make him feel inferior and angry, and his performance will be even more unsatisfactory to you.