Talking that you have no feelings in front of friends and family

When most men have an affair after marriage or the wife does not treat her husband with tenderness during the marriage, the husband will "timely" say harsh words in front of relatives and friends: "He is not good to my parents. We quarrel every day. "I can't communicate with him, we have been in a cold war for a long time" and so on, hinting to them that you may be "divorced", and when the day of actual divorce comes, everyone will say that it is because you have not been a good wife, and you are absolutely Unexpectedly, the person who stabbed you in the back was your once-loved husband.

Indifferent to you and without any tenderness

For women, a husband should be someone who cares about us in every possible way and can complain and share the trivial matters in life with us. But when you see your husband being anxious or indifferent to us, unless he is very smart , otherwise he must have done something wrong, or he must be disappointed in you. Maybe he is just in a mood for a moment, so before you give up, you can say to him: "Should we talk? Although you say it's okay, I believe there must be something wrong between us, otherwise you You won’t do this to me.”

I am very good at pretending to be poor and finding faults in life

A man after an affair is quite selfish, especially when he wants to build a love nest with another man, he will pretend to be poor in the family. If he is a businessman, he will say that business is not good this year. Yes, a wage earner will say that the company's performance is not good, there is no bonus this year, and so on. Anyway, it's just how poor he is, so that you can identify him as a poor boy in your heart. In this way, even if he gets divorced, he won't have much success. loss. If the couple is paying for the house, he will ask you to pay for the house yourself, whether it is materials, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, children going to school, the elderly being sick, etc., he will use a series of abnormalities to maximize his iron rooster appearance. Anyway, just don't try to squeeze a drop of oil and water out of him. What's more, he will start to dislike your salty food, your hair will fly all over the house when it is light, and he will lose his temper with you. In this way, his goal will be achieved, because he will withdraw smoothly along this step. your relationship.

Often staying out at night on the excuse of working overtime

Most men will "study" the marriage law after cheating, and they will use what they learn to get a divorce cleverly. The most typical one is that they will grasp the "statutory divorce is allowed for those who have been separated for two years due to emotional discord" in the marriage law. If you stay out all night, or stay out all night for a long time, you may have to move somewhere else, or even leave the city to work in other places, etc. This is what they will do as long as they have made up their mind to go.