In the eyes of many people, having sex during pregnancy is a very unreliable thing, and they will consciously choose abstinence to ensure the health of pregnant women and fetuses. After women give birth, many people are particularly concerned about their sexual life. They want to know when they can start sexual life and what issues they need to pay attention to in their sexual life. Let us find out together.

What issues should we pay attention to when having sex after childbirth?

1. Don’t be too anxious about sex

I understand everyone’s eagerness, but don’t be too impatient about having sex after childbirth. You must wait until the woman has fully recovered before having sex. Generally, sexual life can be started after two months, but it depends on the woman's specific recovery. Especially some elderly mothers should pay special attention and never act too hastily.

2. Pay attention to the psychological problems of pregnant women

After giving birth, many mothers will have certain psychological problems due to the impact of hormones in the body and role changes. At worst, you may develop a tendency to be depressed, or at worst, you may suffer from postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is not a small problem, it can have serious consequences over time. Men must not force women to have sex. Being too impatient in this matter will cause women's psychological imbalance and make psychological problems more serious.

3. Contraceptive measures should be taken properly

When women resume ovulation after giving birth, it is not as late as people think. Some women resume ovulation very quickly. If they do not take contraceptive measures when having sex again, women will become pregnant again. Whether it is a woman who had a caesarean section or a vaginal birth, it is not suitable to become pregnant again. For the sake of women's health, as long as they have sex, they must take contraceptive measures. It is best to use condoms for contraception, which will not affect women's breastfeeding.

4. Pay attention to hygiene

After giving birth, women’s bodies are relatively weak and their resistance is also very low. At this time, they are easily attacked by germs. Pay attention to hygiene when resuming sexual life. Whether you are a man or a woman, you must clean your private parts before having sex. When cleaning the private parts, just use warm water. There is no need to use gynecological lotion.

5. Sexual life should be gentler

When resuming sexual life after childbirth, because both people have strong desires, it is inevitable that they will be overly excited. At this time, you need to calm down, don't be too intense, and be gentle, otherwise it is easy to hurt women's private parts. Be gentle with your movements. If you accidentally hurt a woman's private parts, don't let it go and deal with it as soon as possible.

6. Ensure the privacy of the environment

When resuming sexual life after childbirth, it must be done in a private environment. Do not do it when others will disturb you at any time. Otherwise, it will affect the sexual experience and may also affect the male's sexual desire. ability. If conditions permit, you can leave your child to your parents or nanny. If there are many people at home, it is not suitable for sexual life. At this time, it is necessary to create a space for two people to be alone, so as to ensure the quality of sexual life.

Resuming sexual life after childbirth is not a simple matter. He needs to understand many issues in advance and pay attention to many issues during the process, so as to ensure the quality and health of sexual life.