Coming too late for the first night can easily lead to sexual disorders
Researchers analyzed that young people delay having sex for the first time largely due to psychological factors, such as fear of intimate contact, lack of confidence in their bodies, etc. Some people are also worried that poor sexual skills will harm the other person. Leave a bad impression. In addition, many young men and women have misconceptions about sex, which can easily make them stay away from sex. A common misunderstanding among girls is that "good girls should not desire and enjoy sex", which can easily lead them to close themselves off in terms of sexual requirements, and over time can easily lead to sexual frigidity.
One of the biggest obstacles in women's sexual psychology is that they never dare to take the initiative to ask for what they want, which may lead to lifelong disappointment, sexual desire disorder and orgasm disorder. Men's misconceptions are just the opposite. They may blindly worship sexual ability and feel that "the more girls they conquer, the more masculine they become." This understanding will add unnecessary psychological pressure to many young men, making them "afraid of sex" and worrying that they are not strong enough or good enough, and they will hesitate to move forward in the face of sex. This research has also been proven clinically. Doctors have found that couples who get married late and have little sexual experience often find it difficult to enjoy a happy sex life.
Sex education experts emphasize that this study proves that absolute abstinence in sex education is not advisable. Young people should be encouraged to face up to their sexual physiology and needs and learn how to practice sex safely and responsibly. "Masturbation is a simple and safe method that can relieve one's own needs and is harmless to others. At the same time, we do not encourage people to get married too late, as this is not good for physical and psychological benefits."