Orgasm is a magical thing. It makes the relationship between husband and wife stronger and makes sex life more passionate. But some behaviors in life often kill orgasm. To this end, the American Men's Health website conducted a survey of thousands of couples and summarized six behaviors that affect orgasm and gave solutions.

Too much haste. Without enough foreplay, "getting to the point" or using too much force will delay the arrival of female orgasm. Hirschman, a famous gender expert in New York, USA, said: "Men mistakenly believe that skipping foreplay will make women climax quickly, but in fact it will take longer and the effect will be worse." Experts recommend slowing down and more Verbal communication and hugging can help both parties achieve orgasm at the same time.

Always ask about feelings. During sex, properly asking each other how they feel can help control the rhythm, but if you frequently ask each other "how do you feel", "are you comfortable", etc., it will put psychological pressure on your partner and make him or her less confident. Hirschman suggested that you should feedback your feelings to the other party through body movements, expressions, etc., such as rapid breathing and powerful movements.

Don't turn off the TV. Orgasms require a certain amount of concentration, so be sure not to get distracted. Sexologist Dr. Daniel Arel says to make sure you turn off the TV, computer, and cell phone in the room so that both parties are completely in a private space. Also, don’t expect to climax at the same time, everyone should focus on their own pleasure. If one partner reaches climax first, pay more attention to the other partner next time.

Always trying to imitate porn. Some men watch porn and get "inspired" by it, believing that sex should be as intense, plotted, and skillful as porn. But Hirschman said that always thinking of imitating porn and treating sex as a performance will be counterproductive. It's the words and actions of intimacy that really unlock the door to female orgasm, not those lame, stupid techniques.

Sudden changes in frequency. Dr. Daniel Arel says that when a woman approaches orgasm, a man should maintain the same intensity and rhythm. If the man suddenly increases the intensity or speed, the woman's accumulated feelings will be in vain. So when women say "don't stop," just keep the frequency going, not crazier.

Talk about disappointing topics. During sex, appropriate affirmation and praise can increase the interest, but if you mention some uninteresting topics, it may interrupt sex and affect the climax. For example, suddenly asking the other person if they brushed their teeth, or mentioning that there is food in the kitchen that has not been put in the refrigerator, will immediately kill the sexual interest.