Cheating, extramarital affairs, mistress, lover...these words have changed from unfamiliar words to the current buzzwords, which all reflect people's openness to marriage and sex in today's society. Loyalty seems to have become a thing of the past. People often jokingly say "loyalty" Can it be used as food?" So, in life, if this man plans to cheat, or has already cheated, what will they do? What should a wife do after a man cheats?

What are the signs that a man is cheating?

1. He started exercising, especially jogging

You think he started exercising to exercise, and he was practicing jogging, but don’t relax your vigilance. He may have cheated on you under the pretext of jogging. Who can guarantee that he will cheat during the long period of jogging? Did he go to another woman's house?

2. He stops being intimate with you or asks for intimacy more often

For people who cheat, it seems that they will have a little bit of mysophobia in life, and they will no longer want to touch your body. Part of the reason is because they are tired of you. Another reason is that they feel ashamed of you and are worried that they will show their flaws when they are deeply in love with you. Part of the reason is because they have already worked very hard with their lover outside. When I get home, I no longer have the experience to face you again. I often fall asleep and talk about the reasons why I am under too much pressure at work.

And a man's indifference will also cause his wife to seek other ways to comfort herself, or choose to masturbate or go out to find someone who can give her happiness and make herself happy...

3. He starts to pay attention to his diet or starts to lose weight

Men usually don’t pay too much attention to their own image. Maybe they won’t care if their clothes are a little dirty, or they won’t notice if their socks are not turned properly, or they won’t worry if their leather shoes are not wiped clean... But men in love won’t care. In this way, they have to get rid of every little flaw, because they want to show the best side of themselves to their lover, and he wants people to discover his goodness. The image represents the first impression, and he will pay great attention to it.

4. When the phone rings, he gets nervous and tries to speak as quietly as possible when answering the phone

When the relationship between lovers is established, the man begins to worry that his wife will find out, so he will choose to avoid it for fear of being discovered by you. In "Cell Phone", Fei Lao's negligence caused his wife to receive a call from Liu Dan, which exposed the unusual relationship between the two. The mobile phone is not only a communication tool, but also like a grenade that may be discovered and detonated at any time.

5. He often makes excuses to work overtime, especially on weekends

After men have an affair, they will take time to stay with their ex to appreciate the tenderness and beauty of two people being together, so naturally they will not be able to go home on time to be with their wives. At this time, of course the wife will make phone calls, send text messages, and ask the man why he hasn’t come home so late and who he is staying with.

If her husband cheats on her, how can a wife start a battle to defend her marriage, completely defeat her mistress, and win back her cheating husband?

What should a wife do after a man cheats?

1. Don’t make your spouse feel lonely

Some scholars have found that if one spouse devotes all his energy to work. And neglecting to care about your spouse will result in your spouse becoming indifferent to the sexual relationship between the couple. Whenever possible, new sexual relationships are sought. Sexual life between husband and wife is the bond that maintains the love between husband and wife; it is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.

2. Never make life monotonous

After a few years of marriage, the passion begins to cool down, and there is no longer a mysterious temptation for each other physically and mentally. If the couple cannot explore and find a new and more satisfying way of life, some people who are unwilling to be lonely will look for a moment outside. of joy.

3. Pay attention to respecting your spouse’s feelings

If there are too many quarrels between husband and wife, as the saying goes, "big quarrels happen all the time, but small quarrels happen every day", it will hurt the relationship and create a gap. "Sorrow is greater than heartbreak." When one party suffers from harm and reaches the point of being intolerable, it will cause him or her to lose confidence in the marriage.

4. Handle sex life correctly

Improper handling of sexual life between husband and wife can also sow the seeds of sin for an affair. In this regard, women seem to have more responsibilities. Generally speaking, men have a stronger desire for sex than women. Sometimes, in order to get the opportunity to have sex, they have to compromise in front of their wives. Some women discover this secret and use sex life as a means to blackmail and restrict each other. But just when they are complacent, boredom and disgust are quietly rooted in their husbands' consciousness.