Women can be divided into two categories in terms of sexual desire. One category is that they cannot feel the existence of sexual desire at all; the other category is that they have obvious feelings of sexual desire, and some are even quite strong. Regarding when the sexual desire is strongest, one woman said this: "2-3 days before menstruation, 3-5 days during menstruation, and 3-5 days after 8 days of menstruation."

WEEK1 (premenstrual period): restless sexy woman

Your progesterone levels are at their highest at this point, and as your period approaches, the uterine lining finally "breaks free" of hormonal control and begins to wither and prepare to shed. Hormonal turbulence forces us to deal with many problems caused by premenstrual syndrome (PMS): moodiness, lack of energy, swollen breasts, recurring acne, overeating, etc.

Tip: During this time, you suddenly find yourself wanting to have sex again. However, unlike the hormonal rush of sexual desire caused by mid-menstruation, the desire for sex during this period is caused by the stress caused by pre-menstrual restlessness and pelvic congestion. Whether in theory or practice, it is believed that premenstrual sex can bring unparalleled pleasure to women's body and mind.

Note: If you have asthma, be especially careful during this time. At this time, progesterone has an "inciting" effect on many aspects of the body, causing breathing difficulties and possibly worsening asthma. British medical scientists have found that women with asthma can consider taking birth control pills to control hormonal changes. You can also take more anti-asthmatic drugs one week before menstruation is about to occur to nip it in the bud.

WEEK2 (menstrual period): Breasts are in the most relaxed state

How should the menstrual cycle be calculated?

It's actually simple. If your "old friend" comes to visit on the 1st of each month, then the number of days between when she knocks on the door next month is a complete menstrual cycle. On the first day of each month when she arrives, the levels of estrogen and progesterone in our bodies are at their lowest point in a month, indicating a lack of hormones.

Tips: The latest report from the National Cancer Research Center shows that breasts are most "relaxed" during the first two weeks of the menstrual cycle. If you want to do a breast instrument examination, it is best to choose it during this period. Not only is it easier for the doctor to make a diagnosis, but the person being examined will also feel more comfortable, because the breasts are most "cooperative" during this period. This characteristic is especially obvious for young women.

Note: If you notice discharge from your nipples or feel a lump in your breasts, you should go to the hospital as soon as possible no matter what time of your menstrual cycle you are at.

WEEK3 (ovulation period): the sexiest week

One week after menstruation ends, on approximately day 14 of the "cycle", our mature egg sways out from one ovary. And with it comes a certain amount of estrogen and androgens. Within a day or two thereafter, levels of both hormones begin to drop again. At this time, it is not surprising if you feel abdominal pain and slight irritability, or even a small amount of bleeding. Doctors call this "breakthrough bleeding." These are normal reactions that accompany ovulation.

Tip: Don’t deny that you have been in love with the handsome man in the office next door for a long time. Find an opportunity to sit next to him this week. Because this is the sexiest week for women in January. For a mature woman, she wants to have sex more than ever. This is because there are enough sex hormones in the body. According to the American book "Love and Lust", sex hormones can best stimulate sexual desire. When a woman's natural fertility reaches its highest level, it is also when she feels the sexiest, and the chance of pregnancy increases. Therefore, contraception is most important. .

Note: This period is best for doing some creative activities, because this is when your brain is most active. Research by American scientists believes that as estrogen levels in the body increase, people's cognitive abilities also increase. If your cycle is 28 days, then your brain works best and your short-term memory is strongest from days 12 to 14. Arrange important meetings and negotiations during this time, and your reactions will be faster than usual and your work efficiency will be higher.

WEE4 (gestation period): 7 days of loving coquettishness

After ovulation, progesterone rises to prepare for the formation of the endometrium. The rich and strong endometrium determines the implantation rate of mature eggs. Regardless of your psychology, your body is filled with progesterone at this time every month. The radiance of motherhood. At the same time, your sexual desire plummets. During this period, you no longer desire sex as much as you did a few days ago, and you are too lazy to cooperate with your partner's aggressive attacks.

Tip: You may be in a bad mood during this period and especially crave caressing. The doctor's analysis is: When the progesterone level in the body is high, the way women like to have sex is tender love. It's no surprise if you find yourself suddenly acting like a spoiled brat.

Note: Women at this time are most vulnerable to sexually transmitted diseases. Several recent scientific research reports show that women are more susceptible to HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases in the second half of their menstrual cycle. The reason is: During this period, the antiviral cells in the reproductive system are in the most "depressed" state, so the virus is most likely to "take advantage of the situation."

Five Moments When Women Don’t Say No to Sex

1. You have strong desires, want it very much, and are in a relaxed mood, so it is easiest to enter the situation. For example, one interviewee’s experience: “The best time was when I had a drink and a heart-to-heart talk with a friend. It was already past five o’clock in the morning when he took me home. My younger brother was sleeping in the room, and I asked him to wash his face. After taking a rest and going back, he hugged me and said, "I want it!" That time we didn't dare to make any noise in the room for fear of waking up my brother, but we reached the climax at the same time... It felt great that time. ! ”

2. The other party behaves well, is considerate and has good skills. One interviewee said: “The best sexual experience is with my fourth boyfriend. He is a photographer. He is very romantic, gentle, and cool-looking. There are always some unexpected surprises when you are with him. . Having sex with him is a very beautiful thing. He will always find a comfortable place to play music and drink some wine. The most important thing is that he pays attention to my feelings and is not the kind of person to fall asleep after sex. , he would put a pool of warm water in and bathe with me, and I will never forget that feeling.”

3. The two of them are affectionate, have romantic foreplay, and feel that they understand each other and are deeply cherished by each other. This usually happens between passionate lovers, but there are also special cases, such as the experience of one interviewee: "So far, the best sex I have ever had was with a foreigner. I was divorced at that time. It's been two years, and maybe he saw my need in the hotel where he was staying. At nine o'clock in the evening, he poured me a glass of beer. We chatted on the sofa first. We had a good feeling with each other. He kissed my ears, kissed my cheeks, and hugged me tightly. I felt so beautiful at that moment. , has never had this feeling of being chewed, because he understands your feelings and understands your reaction. After taking a shower, he carried me to bed. The only thing I thought about at that time was that I should let go, put aside all shame and baggage, and enjoy this moment wholeheartedly. He is very tall and I am petite, but he is very affectionate and cherishes the beauty. He teaches me to play with and touch slowly, and leads me step by step into a beautiful state and experience the ecstasy. ”

4. The mood of ceremonies and celebrations, reunions after a long absence, special days, etc. One interviewee said: "The best time was when I hadn't seen him for a long time. When I met him in a hotel, I felt so intense that I wanted to eat him all over. And he was so strong. When I entered, my whole body couldn't help but feel happy, trembling, and embracing, hoping for closer contact and friction. This time was the best, and I could climax two or three times, especially when he guided me skillfully, the climax was so beautiful. ”

5. When faced with an exciting and adventurous atmosphere. For example, having an affair, concealing others' knowledge, being afraid of being discovered, etc. often arouse a strong sense of pleasure: "The best time was in the fields abroad, driving while doing it, and I felt a great sense of liberation." "The best time was on MTV What happened was with an American. Halfway through the movie, he started touching my body. I didn’t refuse and responded. We passionately demanded and responded to each other, and in the wildest and most wanton process, we reached a climax together. ."