Many people have discovered this situation: Husband and wife are complementary to each other. If it is a strong alliance, such a marriage will be difficult to last. This is because in a complementary marriage, life can support each other. If you want to have a happy marriage, stay away from these 6 mentalities.

A happy marriage requires staying away from six mentalities

The first type, year-end love

The so-called year-end love means that the couple does not belong to the same era at all. Sometimes the age difference between the two can be three generations. No matter what aspect, such a couple will not be happy.

The second type, everyone has their own agenda

Husband and wife are like birds in the forest and fly apart when disaster strikes. This saying is true. But even like this, Shahe boy doesn't want to have a couple with their own hidden agendas, because when such a couple comes together, they each have something to gain.

The third type, tough temper

Some people say that two people need to complement each other when they are together. According to the hexagram book, the two people's personalities must complement each other. Therefore, if two people have extremely stubborn tempers, they will fight over trivial matters.

The fourth type, two people are too serious

We often call people who are overly serious about being overly serious. If one of the couple is overly serious, it is okay, but if both of the couple are like this, life will be difficult.

The fifth type, having bad habits

Both husband and wife are addicted to alcohol or gambling by nature. When such two people come together, they have common interests. But who dares to say that such a couple will be happy in the future?

The sixth type is violent tendencies

People with violent tendencies have a hobby of hitting others with violence. If one of the couple has this interest, then the other spouse will be unlucky.

The following three secrets of women should be kept secret and not open to outsiders.

1. Don’t tell your current relationship secrets from the past

It is normal for a person to have multiple relationships. But don’t talk about your former lover to your current lover, and don’t compare the past with the present, especially sexual matters. "Money" and "sex" are men's self-esteem. Do not use these two points as an issue, as this will damage the relationship between the couple irreparably. Moreover, the love affairs that have happened in the past are like pains that occur from time to time to women. Why bother to take out your wounds and expose them to the sun?

2. Don’t tell your best friends about your current love secret

What woman doesn’t have a few best friends? But what is hateful is that many women's love is ruined at the hands of their best friends. Linda once introduced her boyfriend to her best friend, firstly to let her best friend keep her in check, and secondly, she hoped that the person she liked would be accepted by her good friends. Fortunately, Linda's boyfriends eventually became good friends with her besties. Linda was very considerate to her best friend and shared all her love secrets with her, including her boyfriend's favorite condoms. However, the best friend asked her boyfriend if this was true. The boyfriend said that Linda had leaked his privacy and they broke up.

After her boyfriend broke up with Linda, he ended up getting together with his best friend. Linda suffered from this for a while. Was it because her boyfriend cheated on her and got close to her best friend that they broke up with her, or did she pursue her best friend after they broke up? However, these are no longer meaningful. Women in love must remember: happiness should not always be exposed, it must be dried one day.

3. Don’t tell your husband your secrets

Women must maintain a certain sense of mystery in order to fascinate men. Therefore, a woman should not tell all her secrets about her thoughts to her husband, otherwise there will be no sense of mystery at all. A good woman is like a good book, let him read it slowly. Only when he doesn't understand it well will he be attracted to explore it in depth. Such a woman will fascinate her husband for a lifetime.