It is often said that men think in their lower body. Sex is indeed very important to men. The way women express love is through words and making delicious food for each other, while the way men express love is in bed. They hope that every time they have sex, they can satisfy women, but they are afraid of sex. These things happen during the process.

1. Sexual request was rejected

Compared to women, men are more likely to be sexually impulsive. For example, seeing exposed pictures and thinking about female sexual organs will make him sexually excited. And if all you get here is a cold "no" from your partner, this will have a huge impact on the man, and may even affect the relationship between the couple.

2. The other party is not proactive

Men want to be satisfied during sex, and they also want the other person to respond to his behavior. If women remain indifferent, such a sex life will definitely not last long. If the other person keeps doing this, the man will also be repelled by sex.

3. Use sex to make demands

The sex that men want is purposeless and is an expression of emotion. If a woman uses it as a weapon or even makes demands, it not only demeans herself, but also denies the feelings of both parties.

4. Reject the man’s caress

It is more difficult for women to achieve orgasm, and they need to use touch and other means to promote the emotion of lovemaking during sex. If a woman refuses a man's touch, the man will have random thoughts.

5. The interval between sex is too long

If the woman is frigid, the man will definitely not be able to bear it, and one day he will inevitably cheat. Therefore, couples must maintain a normal frequency of sex to keep their love fresh.

6. Afraid of not being satisfied with your sexual performance

After many couples have sex, men will ask the woman how she feels because they care about what the woman thinks about this. He wants approval from her so that the man can be more confident.

7. Afraid of wife faking orgasm

When his wife has an orgasm during sex, he can get stronger sexual stimulation and also give him a sense of male pride and accomplishment. But according to a survey, 50% of women fake orgasms during sex. Their intentions are good, but if the husband finds out, it will be extremely damaging to his self-esteem.

Sex life between husband and wife should be a process of enjoyment. If you think of it as too utilitarian, it will lose its original flavor.