Men have always been positioned as "activists" in sex. Sexologists often remind them that they should not be too rude, have longer foreplay, and be gentle afterwards. In fact, sex is a matter of two people, and some inadvertent behaviors of women may ruin their sex life. To this end, based on the latest release from the Kinsey Institute of Sexology in the United States, we have summarized 8 things that women should not do during sex.

1. Too passive. Many women believe that men should take the initiative during sex. In fact, women who are more proactive in their sexual life can greatly improve sexual satisfaction and sexual ability. Always putting yourself in a passive state will increase men's sexual pressure and the frequency of sexual intercourse will also be affected. It is recommended that women try to take the initiative in married life and learn to "seduce" him.

2. Not confident about your body. Confidence is the "motor" of sexual desire, but many women worry about their figure during sex, and are even reluctant to take off their clothes or even refuse sex because of this. The survey shows that men do not pay much attention to the fat on women's bodies during sex, and plump women are more likely to arouse men's desire. It is recommended that women exercise more and take care of their body and skin after bathing to increase their self-confidence.

3. Be silent. Silence is the enemy of sex. A French survey found that during sex, if the partner remains silent, silence is the most unacceptable behavior for men. The subtext to the other party is "I'm not interested in your behavior at all." It is recommended that you must make sounds during sex, whether it is a low moan or a simple compliment, it is a "catalyst" for a perfect sex life and a great compliment to your partner. Great encouragement.

4. Pretend to have an orgasm. Many women will pretend to orgasm during sex, thinking that this is a "white lie" to their lover. In fact, it is easy for men to tell whether their partner has really climaxed through their movements, expressions, and breathing sounds. Pretending to have an orgasm will cause both parties to feel psychologically frustrated, and the orgasm rate will be even lower in the future. It is recommended that women actively communicate when they are unable to climax.

5. Rarely caress men. Modern sexual science research believes that the most important thing in sexual feelings is touch. Caressing and kissing sensitive parts can fully open the door to sexual pleasure. Enjoying caress is not just for women. Men also need to use caress to arouse their emotions and feel loved. It is recommended that women caress men more and develop their sexual sensitive points.

6. "Too selfish" in sex. Sex is a process of satisfaction for both parties. If a woman pays too much attention to her own happiness, and even criticizes men because of it, her partner will be disappointed. It is recommended that women ask the man how he feels while she is satisfied.

7. Unwilling to try new changes. Some women are resistant to trying new positions and using sex toys. If sexual foreplay, sexual positions and the way to reach orgasm remain the same, it is easy for both parties to gradually feel bored. It is recommended to occasionally try a new sexual position, which will make both husband and wife feel stimulated and surprised.

8. Ignore safety measures. Although condoms are used on men, women should also remember to prepare for the safety of both parties and to avoid pregnancy. It is recommended that women keep condoms and lubricants in a private part of the bedroom and check and replenish them regularly.