A harmonious sex life must be free. Both men and women can enjoy the pleasure of sex calmly without fear. If you feel afraid of sexual life, have a certain resistance to sexual life, or worry about many things during sexual life, it will affect the harmony of sexual life, and then affect the relationship between two people. Why do some men always feel afraid during sex? Let us find out next.

Why do some men always feel afraid during sex?

1. Fear of erectile dysfunction

Some men have doubts about their sexual ability and believe that they are likely to have erectile dysfunction during sex, which means they are likely to be impotent. It may be that the previous condition of impotence has left a shadow, or it may be caused by some other psychological reasons. If you have this kind of fear, you might as well extend the time of foreplay appropriately and don't focus on your erection. It will gradually improve.

2. Worry about ejaculation too quickly

Most men are relatively confident, and it can be said that they have lost their confidence. However, some men are still worried that their women will not be satisfied by ejaculating too quickly during sex. In fact, the longer the sex life, the better. If it is not premature ejaculation, coupled with certain sexual skills, women can be satisfied. This depends on whether the two people communicate. Only after serious communication can they relax and not go too far. Worry. But if premature ejaculation does occur, treatment should be started as soon as possible without delay.

3. Worry that the other party will not be satisfied if your size is too small

If two people have reached the point of sexual intercourse, but men are reluctant to have sex and are afraid of sex, it may be because they are not satisfied with the size of their penis. This kind of fear comes from self-denial and is a kind of self-trouble. Size is not the only factor that determines the quality of sexual life. Even if it is only 5 cm, it can make the other party very comfortable. However, if the penis is less than 5 cm when erect, you should be careful that it is caused by penile dysplasia, and you should see a doctor as soon as possible.

4. Worry about women’s pregnancy

If you do not plan to get pregnant now and have unprotected sex, men will have a fear that women will become pregnant. The solution to sexual fear caused by this factor is of course very simple, just use reliable contraceptive methods.

5. Have been traumatized

Some men just cannot have sex and think that sex is very scary, which has a lot to do with childhood trauma. Some men have been sexually hurt, which has left them with psychological shadows and even behavioral disorders. They have a reflex to escape as soon as they have sex. If sexual fear is caused by this reason, there is no way to correct it through self-regulation alone. Your partner must be patient and encourage the other person to come out. At the same time, you should also go to a regular psychological counseling institution to see a psychiatrist. I believe that the doctor's expertise can help you eliminate this sexual fear.

Men feel afraid of sex. There must be a reason behind it. Only when you find the reason can you know how to solve it. Escape is not a solution. It will affect the relationship between husband and wife and make your own psychological problems more serious.