As a girl, there is nothing wrong with being conservative. No matter how open the age is, you still have to be cautious about premarital sex, and never lose your first night in confusion. Girl, you have to understand, what kind of man is worthy of giving you your first night?

Netizens confided:

I am 23 years old. I met a boy through a friend’s introduction. The first time we met was with other friends. We all had a great time. The second time I met him alone, at the end of the game he asked to have sex with me. The reason was that he hadn’t had a girlfriend for a long time (he had about 10 girlfriends before), and I had never had sex with a boy. Bed, rejected him at that time.

The topic between us has been on this issue since then, which puts me under a lot of pressure, not because I am very feudal, but because I feel that everyone does not understand it very well, so I have always insisted on my own opinions. I have doubts in my heart, can we still date this boy?

I have to say that a young boy has already dated ten girlfriends. This boy loves to play so much.

A boy who has just met you for the second time bluntly mentions "getting in bed". In his heart, he does not treat you as someone who must get married.

Usually, when a man decides that a woman is his marriage partner, he won't dare to make any mistakes during the first few meetings. As long as he dares to mention "going to bed" unscrupulously, he hopes to have sex first and try it out. If it feels good, he can continue to keep it. If it feels good for a long time, then he can go back and talk about a more stable relationship.

Nowadays, many people fall in love from the "bed". Some men and women do not necessarily fall in love because of love at the beginning, but just fall in love because of sex, and they stay in love because the woman wants to pursue someone. The result is a guarantee, so the man has to give her a promise of marriage. But what is certain is that this type of marriage model is more likely to cause problems in the future. A man's body will get bored more easily than his heart.

Girls, if a man talks to you about "sex" instead of "love" first, you'd better keep a distance from him first, because after taking this step, no one can There is no guarantee that you will get what you want.

He said that he hasn’t had a girlfriend for a long time, so he hopes you can help him solve his physical problems first. He is really a very selfish man. It is not uncommon for a man to have dated three or two girlfriends, but for a man, his age Qingqing has had ten unsuccessful love stories. As a girl, you should think about it carefully. Behind these unsuccessful love stories, it must not only be the responsibility of those ten girls. It further illustrates that this boy has not yet been determined!

A woman’s first time should be for love, so she won’t regret it. If you leave it to a man who only has sex for the sake of sex, you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life.

The biggest regret in a woman's life is that she gave her most precious things but failed to get the love in her heart.

In love, the body is indeed a woman’s capital, but this requires that, woman, you must not make random investments without understanding the situation!