Lele is a girl in the second grade of high school, 17 years old, of medium height, fair face, plump but not bloated. The way she looked at people and the tone of her words sounded cautious, and she looked like an introverted child. The mother who accompanied Lele into the psychological consultation room was an irritable person who spoke quickly. As soon as she entered the consulting room, she rushed to tell Lele's story endlessly. As she spoke, she became excited, with tears streaming down her face, and asked me persistently: "Can she still change? How can she be treated? Is there any hope?" The mother couldn't wait and her daughter didn't dare. The expressions on the eyes are in sharp contrast. I asked Lele relaxedly with a smile on my face: "Can you tell it yourself?

The consequences of the absence of sex education

Research shows that only 6% of students can communicate with their parents independently. Apart from talking, 56% of boys do not communicate with their parents; 12.3% of students do not know whether masturbation has an impact on health. The proportion of girls who do not know is higher than that of boys. 11% of students believe that masturbation will definitely have an impact on health. The proportion of girls is higher than that of boys.

My son is 15 years old and has just entered high school. His name is Jianping (pseudonym). How can I say this..." The father was so angry that he could not speak coherently. Just listen to Jianping's father continue to say: "We just think something is wrong with him. Three days ago, while the child was at school, we rummaged in his room. His mother and I were rummaging around in his drawer without any purpose. I found a long and thin thing with a microphone and earplugs. We didn't know what it was for. I just put on the earplugs and didn't know how to use them. Oh, I made it. The sound came. I listened carefully, but I was not mad! My wife insisted on listening, and I told her not to listen. "It doesn't matter." After my wife heard this, her eyes widened in surprise, her face turned red, and then she turned pale with anger and sat down on the ground. I was so frightened that I quickly stepped forward to help her. It didn't matter. She hugged me and cried loudly. " I thought maybe the child had recorded some obscene song or dirty joke that made his mother so sad. But I was wrong, and the result was far beyond my expectation. The father became excited: " Do you know? ? He didn't know when he recorded the sound of us having sex! "Huh?

The sky hidden in the schoolbag

The new semester has begun, and at the same time, we have to pay more than 1,000 yuan in tuition. Our whole family has become ants on the hot pot. I almost cried. Dad kept smoking cigarettes for a long time. My mother said, "Lulu, why don't you tell the teacher that we are still 500 yuan short? We really can't afford the money!" I nodded and held back the tears that were about to fall. On the first weekend of school, I went to a hotel. It was my first time to accompany a guest. I was extremely nervous and didn’t know what to say. The man was about 40 years old and said he was on a business trip to Kunming. He came at 8 p.m. The plane was so boring before, so I wanted to find someone to chat with. I told him it was my first time doing this and he said no wonder you were so nervous. After I returned home, I opened my backpack and saw that it was 500 yuan. I was shocked. My monthly living expenses were only over 100 yuan! Looking at the money, I cried. My parents worked hard for a year to earn so much money, but I just chatted with others and earned 500 yuan! What kind of world is this? I couldn't help but be a little confused. I returned Sister Lin's 300 yuan. I wanted to give the 200 yuan to the teacher, but I thought I'd better give it to the teacher after I collected 500 yuan! From then on, I would go there every weekend. I don’t know if it was my luck or they took care of me. Every week I would have a lot of income, at least 100 yuan. Months later, I not only paid off my tuition fees, but also sent some money back to my parents, but I didn't dare to send more money. I just said it was a scholarship from the school. However, if you walk at night for a long time, you will encounter ghosts!

${FDPageBreak}Growing up in the rain that semester

Q: Why do you think there are such deep scars on some girls, but on others it’s just like a scratch? Like a wind? Answer: Probably because of my age. Many of my friends knew very well what to do with medical abortion and artificial abortion when they went for abortion. But at that time, I didn’t understand at all. I didn’t even know what my vagina looked like or what a test strip was. I didn’t have any ability to protect myself. Not only the knowledge about contraceptive measures, but also the mentality. Not only do I have to hide from teachers and parents, but I also have to endure endless physical and psychological pain. Words cannot express the feeling. The parents didn't know anything, didn't see or hear anything, so they thought everything was normal. When children need guidance and help most, that concern is missing. What is more common is that children are most afraid of their parents knowing when they are hurt, which will only make things more complicated, receive more blame, and bear more pressure. Because some parents only think about face, or who has deceived their children, or whether their children's misbehavior will affect their future, or other external things. In the end, their anger makes things worse, because they have long been far away from their children's spiritual world.

Sex education that has gone into misunderstandings

Love is one of the deepest impulses of the human spirit. Feuerbach said: Love is to be a person. But if you don't grasp love well, you will be destroyed by fiery love before you become a noble person. It is reported that children obtain less than 5% of the "sex" knowledge from their parents. This shows that most families are closed to their children when it comes to dealing with the issue of sex. Even if parents decide to communicate with their children, they are not sure how to speak or to what extent. Regrettably, our parents have poor knowledge about sex and cannot treat sex education correctly, causing their children to engage in "sex" hastily. Not only are they themselves sexually violated, but they also harm others with sex. The sex crime rate is on the rise.

Let sex education be filled with sunshine

These 13 middle school students are not so-called "problem teenagers". More than half of them are good students recognized by teachers and students, and 1/3 are from key middle schools. Therefore, their experiences are common among teenagers of this generation: they do not use condoms when they have sex for the first time, their parents and teachers do not know that they have had sexual intercourse experience, and they are not satisfied with the sex education at school and at home... After the famous writer Bi Shumin learned the facts in the book, Express your feelings in four words: "The feeling of bleeding"!

We have never been flowers

Two high school students were filmed by cameras in the classroom for being intimate in a self-study class. After a year, the school administrators On the eve of the college entrance examination, such a video was openly shown in every classroom in the school, without mosaics on the faces of the two people. Their self-esteem was severely hurt, and they even wanted to die. After careful consideration, the two decided to take their alma mater to court on the grounds of violation of personality and dignity. This case became the first case in the history of education in which a student sued his alma mater. It caused huge repercussions in all walks of life and profound questions about the current education system. Reflect.

Changes in Sexual Attitudes of Female College Students

Contemporary, the ethics and moral values ​​learned by female college students from their parents are often seriously challenged when they enter college. Because the university emphasizes objectivity and independence, it creates comprehensive doubts about the outlook on life instilled in them by their parents. As a female college student who is about to bid farewell to her alma mater that has nurtured her for four years said: "When I came here, the world was bright; now when I leave her, the world is so disappointing and depressing. All of this, originally It shouldn't happen." Researchers conducted a four-year psychological study on 500 female college students about the transition from virginity to non-virginity. In our survey, the proportion of female college students who had experienced sexual activity increased with grade. The proportions are: 7% of freshmen; 13% of sophomores; 20% of juniors; in seniors, about 1/4 of girls have experienced sexual life. What should attract the attention of therapists is that the sexual behavior of female college students is not simple.

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