Many women always curse when their husbands cheat, thinking that the sky is falling and life seems to be hopeless. Is it really? actually not. Many times a man's motive for cheating is just because he feels new, and if a woman lets a man cheat, there must be some unknown rift in it. So when are men most likely to cheat? As a wife, how can you save your man after he is caught cheating?

When are men most likely to cheat?

1. When my wife is pregnant

When a wife is pregnant, she needs her husband's protection and care the most, but it is also the time when a man is most likely to cheat. Having sex after pregnancy is not good for the health of the baby. When a man is lonely and intolerable, he may engage in sexual intercourse.

Therefore, when you are pregnant, women should not focus on how to give birth to a good baby and ignore your husband. He also needs your care. Give him a little more sweetness, a little more thoughtfulness and gentleness, so that he can wait by your side obediently, waiting for the arrival of the baby.

2. Spend less time together and more time apart

The possibility of cheating in a long-distance relationship is also quite high. If you live in two places and cannot share tenderness, it is true that a breakup is better than a new marriage, but after a long separation, if the man cannot bear the loneliness and temptation, he is very likely to cheat. In fact, whether you are a man or a woman, the probability of cheating in a long-distance relationship will increase accordingly. Therefore, if you want to maintain a long-distance relationship well, what you need most is the determined will and absolute loyalty of both parties.

3. Husband and wife quarrel and disagree with each other

When a husband and wife have a serious conflict over an issue, and the two parties do not give in to each other, the angry man may act impulsively. In fact, when two people are together, quarrels are inevitable. Quarrel can bring two people closer together, but the condition is that the quarrel is used as a way to solve the problem, rather than for the sake of quarrel. Therefore, if there is a conflict, you should calm down and analyze it first, and then resolve the conflict on the basis of mutual understanding.

4. When your career is frustrated and you can’t get comfort from your wife

Men are the backbone of the family and work hard to support the family. But they seem to be strong, but they actually have weaknesses inside. Especially when you are frustrated in your career, you will become very vulnerable. At this time, they need their wives to understand them, understand them, and give them some encouragement and comfort. If his wife is indifferent to him at this time, or even blames him, it will easily arouse their rebellious psychology and choose to look for others to comfort themselves outside.

Sometimes, when a man cheats, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you anymore. Generally, the reason is that the man feels that his life is too monotonous and wants to change his appetite.

Three tips to help you save your cheating husband

1. Express your anger to your husband appropriately

For women, they should first feel the extent of their own injuries and anger, and express it to their husbands within a reasonable range, so that men should also pay the emotional price for their cheating. How should the degree of venting be controlled? "Even if you are very angry, you should first assess the range of what the man can bear, so that he will feel a certain sense of guilt and guilt without driving him away."

2. Women should know how to exercise self-restraint

The wife should try not to complain to both parents about her husband's cheating. After all, cheating is a disgraceful thing, and men love face. If both parents find out, he may feel shameless and unable to hold his head high in front of his elders.

After an affair occurs, both men and women will be hurt, and the man will have a certain sense of guilt and hope to make up for his debt to his wife in his future life. If the wife repeatedly brings up the cheating incident with her husband, it is like opening up the newly healed scars again. Every time you mention it, you are hurt, and the guilt in the man's heart will gradually decrease, which may prompt him to cheat again. Therefore, if women cannot restrain their anger, they should seek out a professional psychological counselor to help them vent their dissatisfaction.

3. Have requirements for men

"The wife needs to give her husband a certain amount of time to deal with the relationship with the mistress. But she must ask her husband not to have any emotional connection or physical contact with her. Once there is physical contact again, it will be easy to develop feelings and become disconnected."

Of course, the world is full of wonders, there are many good men, and there are also many scumbags. So for the sake of your own happiness, women had better become smarter. A man will definitely feel very guilty after cheating. This kind of man can make amends; but for other men, there is no need to make do with it.