Nowadays, society is still relatively closed about sex. Many people speak in a low voice when discussing in public places to avoid feeling embarrassed. Although many people have a relatively open concept of sex, there are still some concerns about sex life. Misunderstandings about sexual life are mainly reflected in women. Due to these misunderstandings, they may cause disharmony in sexual life.

So, what misunderstandings do women have about sex life? These 4 misunderstandings need to be corrected!

First, a woman’s body is naturally excited

This concept is wrong. Why is it so important to always emphasize foreplay during sex? This is because men and women have different excitement points during sex. Men can enter the state of sex as long as they have an erection, while women can enter the state of sex if they have an erection. Without foreplay, without some touching and teasing, the body cannot be naturally excited and the vagina cannot be lubricated, and it is impossible to enter the state of sexual life. If sexual intercourse is forced at this time, both parties will lack pleasure, so women need some stimulation. To make the body excited.

Second, sexual life is dominated by him

Many women mistakenly believe that men are in a dominant position in their sexual lives and that he decides when to have sex, while women are passive and can respond to men's sexual requirements at any time. This is mainly because women are afraid of asking for sex themselves and are afraid of being rejected and feeling ashamed. However, many men feel that if a woman takes the initiative to ask for sex, it will make them more excited.

Third, men don’t need visual stimulation

Women are excited by touch, sound, and smell. Men respond through visual stimulation. This is the biggest difference between men and women. This is why men are more willing to buy some sexy lingerie as a gift than a handbag. This is because they like women to wear sexy underwear, which gives them a visual impact and makes them sexually excited. Therefore, it is very important to stimulate men's vision.

Fourth, they will be satisfied with women’s orgasm

Many women think that their performance is the most important in sexual life, thus ignoring their own feelings. In fact, men pay more attention to the sexual experience they bring to women. If he finds out that the woman is just pretending to enjoy it, or is faking an orgasm, they will feel a serious sense of humiliation. Because they pay more attention to women's sexual feelings, faking orgasms makes them feel cheated.

In short, the above four points show that women have some misunderstandings about sex and must correct their misconceptions. Whether they are a couple or a married couple, when two people get along for a long time, the novelty of each other gradually decreases, so visual stimulation is needed to keep sex fresh. In sex life, women not only need to learn to take the initiative, but also need to understand men's psychology, so that they can make sex life more satisfying.