Sexual repression, also called sexual hunger, refers to the restriction and control of one's own sexual desires. It manifests as controlling the frequency of sexual intercourse for a period of time, shifting attention from sexual desire to other things, and having an extreme desire for the opposite sex and sexual intercourse but being unable to approach the opposite sex or having sexual intercourse due to various reasons. Psychological and physiological state.

What effects does sexual repression have on the human body?

Traditional Chinese medicine believes that long-term abstinence can cause "menstrual blood stasis and loss of muscle support", which can lead to "weakness and disuse". Explain that the result of long-term abstinence will be permanent loss of sexual function. Because abstinence destroys the balance of yin and yang and suppresses people's sexual instincts, the body's accumulated sexual desires cannot be released, which will instead cause harm to people's spirit and body.

1. Sexual science research shows that the harm of sexual repression is very serious. Sexual repression that has not been vented for a long time will have a negative impact on people's physical and psychological development, work and study, and even damage physical and mental health.

2. Physical symptoms appear. When sexual desire is suppressed to the subconscious, the painful experience will temporarily disappear, but then symptoms such as insomnia, nightmares, dizziness, lack of concentration, gastrointestinal discomfort, diarrhea and other neurological disorders will appear. Over time, normal people may develop sexual dysfunction such as low libido (see low female libido and low male libido) or impotence. Patients who have already developed impotence have more severe physical and mental symptoms because they have to suppress their unfulfilled desire for sexual intercourse.

3. It is easy to increase the disease incidence rate, aging and premature death. The deeper the emotion, the greater the influence.

4. When lovers who are passionately in love encounter setbacks, they will experience negative emotions such as worry, anxiety, suspicion, sadness, disgust, etc. It is very likely that a "love syndrome" will occur, which manifests as listlessness, weakness of limbs, not wanting to eat, and severe Patients may experience palpitations, palpitation, and chest tightness.

5. In the medical records in clinical psychological consultation clinics, relationship conflicts and psychological conflicts caused by marital problems or unsatisfactory sexual life can cause various symptoms of neurosis, which are called hysterical syndromes in traditional Chinese medicine, such as sleep disorders and neurasthenia. , anxiety, depression and other symptoms. In addition, sexual repression can also lead to sexual perversion, voyeurism, pedophilia, etc.

How to improve the sexual repression of left-behind women

Left-behind women have heavy labor burdens, great family pressure, and worrying health conditions

Xiong Tong said that left-behind women in rural areas are responsible for family responsibilities and large and small affairs. They not only have to support the elderly and raise children, but also take care of housework and farm work. According to the survey, most left-behind women in rural areas need to cultivate 3.67 acres of farmland independently, and the average daily labor production time is 8.5 hours during busy farming periods.

Because left-behind women bear the pressure of family livelihood, family role responsibilities and agricultural production, their minds are overburdened. Long-term heavy labor and strong family pressure have caused their appearance to age prematurely and their physical condition to become worse and worse. Many left-behind women in rural areas suffer from various physical diseases.

Left-behind women lack emotional needs, have low happiness index, and have marriages in crisis

"Because their husbands are away from home for many years, they cannot get their husbands' considerate care and careful care, and lack love and understanding. The long-term separation between the two places has also led to the inability to achieve physical satisfaction between the husband and wife. The left-behind women have been in a state of sexual repression for a long time," Xiong Tong said.

Xiong Tong believes that the long-term lack of emotional needs and "low sexual satisfaction" in marriage have seriously affected the physical and mental health of rural left-behind women, resulting in a low life happiness index. The distance in space hinders the emotional communication between husband and wife. The husband broadens his horizons outside and is prone to extramarital affairs. For left-behind women, the weakening of feelings increases the suspicion between husband and wife. In addition, the self-spiritual emptiness makes them vulnerable to the temptation of outside criminals, thus leading to emotional crisis.

Left-behind women have weak awareness of rights protection and lack of sense of security

"As a large number of young and middle-aged male laborers go out to work, the remaining relatively vulnerable groups such as the elderly, children and women stay at home, which brings great challenges to rural public security," Xiong Tong believes.

Rural areas are vast and sparsely populated, and the social security situation continues to deteriorate. The probability of illegal crimes is gradually increasing, and left-behind women have become the main targets of some illegal criminals. "Because left-behind women in rural areas are more likely to suffer personal and property infringement when they lose the protection of their husbands, and even suffer sexual harassment and sexual assault. Because left-behind women in rural areas are weak, have low education levels, and have weak awareness of rights protection, they are used as family property When they are physically violated, most of them choose to endure it alone and silently.”