Mysophobia is a sexual psychological disorder. It can happen to both men and women. But it is more common in women. Especially intellectual women. Some people have an unscientific attitude towards their reproductive organs or physiological phenomena, thinking that they are ugly or dirty. The most common is that women think that their menstrual blood is unclean and that menstruation is disgraceful. After marriage, some wives find their husband's genitals "dirty", disgusted with semen, and even disgusted with their husband's smell, sweat, secretions, etc. There are also women who subjectively classify their sexual behavior as: "good" or "bad", and couples will use this standard to regulate their behavior when making love. They hate their husband's hands "touching in places they shouldn't." She is also disgusted with her husband's expressions of love.

What are the common manifestations of sexual mysophobia

Sexual mysophobia refers to sexual mysophobia and the following symptoms:

1. Self-physical mysophobia, that is, having an unscientific attitude towards one's own body, especially reproductive organs and physiological phenomena, or feeling that they are ugly or dirty.

2. Physical mysophobia towards the opposite sex.

3. Mental hysteria towards the opposite sex, that is, aversion to the opposite sex which is actually normal sexual behavior, sexual expression or sexual language.

It is not easy for ordinary people to realize that this is mysophobia, and it is even more difficult for them to understand where their own or their partner’s mysophobia comes from. They often think that the other person just “doesn’t love me, or doesn’t really love me”; It is just "hygiene" or even "elegant taste".

In fact, mysophobia means that although the client intellectually admits that the other party's genitals and sexual behavior are clean, that is, they meet the hygienic sterility standards, they always involuntarily feel that the other party is "dirty" psychologically, or always feel that the other party is "dirty" psychologically. It is a mental disorder that involves thinking of something that one considers dirty. If you force yourself or the other party to do it, it will cause more conflicts and pain.

How to scientifically prevent and treat sexual mysophobia

To prevent and correct sexual mysophobia, we must first view the sexual behavior between husband and wife correctly. If you feel that you are disgusted, reluctant, or regretful when kissing, caressing, or having sex, you should not just look for the crux of the problem from the relationship between the couple. Instead, you should consider whether you may be suffering from a psychosexual disorder. If necessary, you can seek help from a psychological counselor. Psychological desensitization therapy can also be used to correct it and replace sexual mysophobia with positive sexual enthusiasm.

For sexual mysophobia, we should fundamentally eliminate their misguided understanding that everything is unclean and sex is dirty. We can also take the following measures: Husbands should pay great attention to cleanliness and hygiene, treat their spouse's sexual mysophobia correctly, and avoid Inducing a spouse's aversion to sexual life. Couples should not only increase the "transparency" of sexual organs between husband and wife and understand their functions, but also bathe and wash each other together, get along as naked as possible, and connect this experience with the good feelings in the couple's life to make their sex life more enjoyable. It has become an indispensable measure for couples to communicate emotionally. Both parties can get fun and pleasure in the process, so that sexual mysophobia can be corrected and slowly eliminated in the process of achieving "one pleasure and one pleasure".