My boyfriend and I were college classmates. Before graduation, we were surrounded by deep separation sorrow, and our relationship quickly heated up. One night, we met secretly. My boyfriend was very impulsive and kept kissing me and taking off my clothes. I realized he wasn't inserting his penis into me, he was just rubbing it against my lower body. So even though I was stiff, I still acquiesced. Finally he ejaculated, and my lower body was wet with his warm semen.

To be honest, I am very grateful to my boyfriend for allowing me to maintain my innocence. The next month, I missed my period. I thought it was due to a bad mood and didn't care. The second month, the third month... it was almost five months, but my period still hadn't come. I panicked. Looking back, that day happened to be the ovulation period. Could it be... I went to find my boyfriend. He said if we do that, nothing will happen. I tried giving myself 3 injections of progesterone, but there was no withdrawal bleeding. In the dead of night, I felt a faint movement in my lower abdomen. I was really panicked and went for a B-ultrasound: I was actually five months pregnant! I was stupid and kept asking myself: How could this happen?

I had an induced labor without telling my parents or my employer. Although the nightmare is gone now, we have become frightened and dare not touch this topic. We still can't understand it. Could it be that my hymen had broken early, so the semen could flow in? Or can the semen pass through the intact hymen? I hope the knot in my heart can be opened from now on.

Shanghai Quan'er

Hello Quan'er:

Maintaining chastity is an excellent quality of oriental women. You are a good girl and you deliberately keep your chastity. However, she was pregnant without knowing it, and underwent an induced labor operation. She was severely damaged physically and mentally, mainly because she lacked a comprehensive understanding of the genitals.

You think the hymen is intact, but it is not. The hymen is like an ancient coin, with a hole in the middle that allows the little finger to pass through. When a thick penis enters by force, the hymen will be torn, making the hole larger and the annular membrane looser. Therefore, there is pain and a small amount of bleeding during sexual intercourse for the first time. You didn't feel this way that night, probably your hymen wasn't broken at that time.

You thought that you would not get pregnant after ejaculation outside your body, and then you acted as if nothing had happened. Even three or four months of amenorrhea and even fetal movements failed to arouse your vigilance. As a result, labor was induced in the mid-term and you suffered a lot. In fact, in real life, there are many people who get pregnant accidentally due to external ejaculation.

That day is your ovulation period. Your egg is already waiting at the far end of the fallopian tube, and your cervix is ​​fully prepared to receive sperm. The cervical canal secretes a large amount of egg white-like leucorrhea, which flows down from the cervix, like a stream, through the vagina, the hymen hole, and out of the vaginal opening, forming a slimy, shiny "small pool" in the perineum. This is the leucorrhea unique to ovulation. At first glance, it looks like egg white hanging on the edge of an eggshell. It is transparent, sticky, and stringy; under an electron microscope, it can be seen that it is composed of countless fibrin filaments. These thin, filamentous proteins are arranged in parallel to form tiny tubes that are filled with water and nutrients.

When the sperm ejaculated in the vagina encounter this egg white-like leucorrhea, they immediately swarm into the tube, absorbing nutrients while "swimming upstream" and entering the cervical canal. After they are "capacitated" again in the cervical canal, they enter the fallopian tube through the uterine cavity. The one who gets there first meets the egg, quickly penetrates into it, fertilizes it, and creates a new life. In addition, although your boyfriend only rubs your "lower body", the tip of his glans is likely to be close to the hymenal hole during ejaculation, and part of the semen will be ejected into the vagina. If so, it will be easier for you to get pregnant.

Although the "nightmare" is far away now, has the psychological trauma been eliminated? Will mid-term induction of labor leave salpingitis? These issues need to be paid attention to. Your abortion was in the first month of the month. It is very likely that you had the uterine curettage after the induction of labor, and there was a lot of blood. You were not able to rest well after the delivery, and there was a greater chance of secondary genital inflammation. Therefore, if you have dull pain in the lower abdomen, you must go to a gynecologist for diagnosis and treatment to completely cure the possible genital inflammation, so as to avoid secondary unevenness or ectopic pregnancy in the future if you get married. Finally, I hope you will keep your integrity and never touch the forbidden fruit again, or break the jar and cause new troubles.