When it comes to non-marital sex, perhaps the first thing we think of is pre-marital sex, but in fact people often ignore extra-marital sex, which is also a type of non-marital sex. So below we will explain in detail to learn about non-marital sex between men and women.

Non-marital sex includes two categories: One is premarital sex, that is, sex between men and women who are preparing to get married before completing legal marriage procedures. Pregnancy and other negative consequences caused by such non-marital sex may have an adverse impact on marriage and married life. For example, when a woman becomes pregnant, it often forces both men and women who are not ready to get married to rush into marriage. Or make those men and women who are not suitable for marriage get married hastily, thus reducing the quality of marriage. The other category is extramarital sex, that is, sex between a person who has a legal spouse and another person.

There are three main types of extramarital sex: ① De facto bigamy. It refers to the behavior of men and women with legal spouses living together with others in the name of husband and wife without registering their marriage. ②Concubine behavior. It refers to the act of a person who has a legal spouse living together openly with others, but without using the name of husband and wife. ③Adultery. Refers to the hidden sexual behavior between a person who has a legal spouse and others. Adulterous men and women neither use the name of husband and wife nor openly live together, but maintain a hidden sexual relationship and perform sexual behaviors in a hidden way. They do not want others to discover this sexual relationship and sexual behavior. In fact, some of the rapes that are criminalized under the Criminal Code are committed by people with spouses, and their rapes are also classified as extramarital sex.

Causes of non-marital sex

According to actual surveys and research, the main reasons for extramarital sex include the following aspects: ① Defects in the marital relationship itself. Some defects in the marriage relationship often cause one or both parties to seek sexual relations and sexual behaviors with others, obtain physical and psychological satisfaction from sexual relations and sexual behaviors with others, and use this to make up for the shortcomings of the marriage relationship. defect. For example, due to the long-standing tradition of "parents' orders and matchmaker's words" in concluding marriages, a large number of marriages in Chinese society are still concluded on the basis of a lack of understanding between men and women. After marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious. . Unhappy married life. For another example, due to the lack of positive and scientific sex education, many married men and women lack sexual knowledge and sexual life skills, resulting in disharmony in the sexual life of couples and causing both couples to fall into lasting distress. Such couples have a psychological basis for having extramarital sex. When they encounter suitable external conditions, they can easily develop emotional connections with others and have extramarital sex.