It is very difficult for a man to be caught between his own woman and his own mother. It is a headache for everyone. At this time, the man hopes that the woman can tolerate it and not care too much about the old man. The woman will swallow her anger even if she is a little wronged. , otherwise the man will eventually slap the woman at all costs.

There is happiness and there is sadness. The following are the most intolerable things for men in the life of a couple. As a wife, you must be careful and don't let your happiness be ruined in your hands.

Men have three kinds of psychology that you need to know

1. Oppose suspicion

This is the most harmful behavior. It not only hurts the other person, but also hurts yourself. This is reflected in a very real example. In a rural area on the edge of a city, the people there are very rich and their land is expropriated. After it was used for industrial purposes, every villager received dividends, which were no less than 100,000 yuan per person per year. In such a wealthy village, many men had three or more wives, and one wife lived on each floor of the same house. There were no instances of divorce.

But this year there was a divorce in this village. The man was very rich, owned a factory, and had a very successful career. Their family had a son and a daughter. It was originally a happy family, but because the man was In business, he often has to socialize and go out early and come back late. The woman suspects that he has another woman and keeps making unreasonable claims that he has another woman. In fact, the man has never been in contact with any woman and cherishes this happy home. However, Year after year, day after day, women can't change, but they keep saying this to men, which makes them annoyed. Later, when they get angry, they think to themselves: "I'm not looking for another woman, and you keep wrongly accusing me of looking for one. Anyway, you're not looking for me." If you think of me like this, I would be sorry for myself if I didn’t look for it.”

As a result, he dated other women with peace of mind. Later, the relationship became more and more intense. Finally, when the woman found out, he became furious and asked for divorce in anger. The son and daughter will be raised by the woman, and the man will pay a one-time alimony of 3 million.

Regarding this divorce, people in the whole village scolded them, saying that they had ruined Feng Shui, and there was no need to get divorced. It would be enough to build an extra house and marry an extra woman. If they had to get a divorce, it was because the woman was too naughty. In the end, the villagers Drive women away.

Later, the man said: "If the woman hadn't suspected me like this, I would have refused when another woman approached me. It was her unfounded suspicion that made me do this out of anger. There is nothing I regret. It has happened, and it was caused by myself. I bear the consequences and responsibility.

Women should also reflect on this incident caused by suspicion.

2. Oppose nagging

This nagging refers to the fact that a woman always talks about this and that endlessly when she has nothing to do, which is annoying and makes people unable to have a moment of silence. If something happens, it will be even worse. She will point at the sky and the earth and talk with gusto. , if this is the case, the man would rather go outside and sit on the street than return home.

Some men are not afraid of loneliness or running around, but they are afraid of women nagging. He works tirelessly outside, and when he comes home, he just wants to rest and be quiet. A woman should give him a quiet and comfortable rest environment. This can make a man miss home and want to go home.

3. Oppose autocracy

After all, a man is a man. No matter what happens, he will first think that he is an upright man. He should handle it by himself, or have the right to participate. But if a woman has the final say on everything, she does not put men at all. If you don't respect his opinions or listen to his words, then the man will feel that he has no status and no use in this family, which will hurt his heart and make him feel boring.

When two people live together, they should respect each other and be considerate of each other. Domination by either party will cause disharmony in the family.

Where can a woman tell a man’s love?

TOP1. Keywords: Hug

Every time after saying goodbye, he would always hold her tightly in his arms and stare into her eyes silently, as if letting go would touch the end of the world. Every time at this time, she would always feel like a deer in her heart, hoping to hold her like this till the end of time. A hug without desire is the most touching. To borrow Archimedes' theory: Give me a hug and I can have all your love.

TOP2, keyword: respect

They haven't reached the point of intimacy yet. While traveling together, she secretly cried in her seat, and he quietly closed the window and turned off the small light, so that she could vent her feelings without being too embarrassed. Her mood suddenly improved and she decided that he was a trustworthy person. Love is important, but respecting a woman's feelings and dignity is more important than loving blindly and subjectively.

TOP3, keyword: focus

They hang out in the book market. He suddenly stopped in front of the tool bookshelf and meticulously searched for a computer book. His serious eyes shone with wisdom, and she couldn't help but feel her heart beat. Many women like to watch men at work. When a man is at work, he has a nail-like "axis energy" in his body, which makes countless women think: How wonderful it would be if they used this concentration to love me! A little more. Bring an umbrella for a date in the spring, mosquito repellent for a date in the summer, lip balm in the fall, and a scarf in the winter. It is this kind of affordable warmth that makes women feel happy.

TOP4, keyword: remember

She loves to eat "cute stuff" so the refrigerator is never out of stock. Suddenly one day, there was a note written by him on the refrigerator: "I'm sorry, dear, the chocolate-flavored ones are sold out. You might as well try the strawberry flavor today." Before she even ate the ice cream, she was already filled with honey.

Being careless, he often forgets his birthday, but he remembers her measurements, her menstrual cycle, and her allergy to mangoes. The reason why the man remembers her clearly is because he never forgets her.

TOP5, keywords: protection

Walking at a busy intersection, he suddenly pushed her from the left to the right side of his body, using his burly body to block the car that was about to start for her. She was overjoyed. Today's women are not looking for a husband just for a long-term meal ticket, they need to be more responsible. When a man walks, he protects her inside, and when he eats, he shields her from the biting air-conditioning. His knight-like protection can move a woman deeply.