There are five "red lights" that should not be avoided when it comes to sexual intercourse between husband and wife.
As people's knowledge of sexual life has become more widely popularized, articles or books about sexual life skills and other aspects can be seen everywhere. People who are liberated from sexual ignorance greedily absorb this nutrition and make their families The quality of couples' sex life has been greatly improved.
So what are the taboos in couples’ sexual life?
1. It is not suitable for couples to live together during women’s menstrual period, early and late pregnancy. During menstruation, women's vaginal secretions are neutralized by menstrual blood and become alkaline, becoming a good bacterial culture medium. At the same time, the endometrium is shed, there are wounds in the uterus, and the uterine opening is slightly open. Bacteria can easily be brought in during intercourse, causing inflammation of the reproductive organs. If you already have chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, sexual intercourse during menstruation will cause an acute attack.
2. Avoid being insufficiently prepared and rushing to have sex. Some people do not understand the physiological characteristics of women and are eager to have sex without making preparations. Or they end up hastily because of time constraints. None of these practices can bring the woman to climax. Not only do she lose interest in sexual life, but they also cause pain, which is the main reason for women's sexual frigidity.
3. Avoid sexual intercourse when you are full or hungry. After a full meal, blood flows to the intestines and stomach, and the brain and other organs have relatively insufficient blood supply. On the contrary, when you are hungry, your physical strength decreases and your energy is low. Therefore, sexual intercourse when full or hungry often does not achieve sexual satisfaction. Even if you barely get sexual satisfaction, it is not good for your health.
4. It is not suitable to live as a couple when you are tired. Sexual life consumes a certain amount of physical strength and energy. Sexual intercourse when you are mentally or physically exhausted often fails to reach climax and does not yield satisfactory results for both parties. Especially having sexual intercourse immediately after exertion will damage your health and may also cause problems in the future. Sex life leaves a bad impression.
5. It is not suitable to live as a couple when there are diseases such as reproductive tract infections or serious organic diseases. When both men and women suffer from sexually transmitted diseases, they should suspend sexual life and have timely examination and treatment together to avoid aggravation or recurrence of the disease; when men have serious organic diseases, such as severe heart disease and tuberculosis infection, they should also Follow your doctor's advice and stop having sex.
5 sex tips for couples’ sex life
1. Design exclusive password
Sex is between the two of you and is private. Therefore, you might as well design a set of secret codes that are exclusive to you during sexual foreplay, which not only solves the problem of wasting time guessing each other's feelings, but also prevents you from being too shy to speak out. You can wink, wink, or wave your hands gently. The key is to quickly and directly let him understand the message "I want you right here and now." This is the key to experiencing the thrill of super-fast sex. Generally speaking, when a woman takes the initiative to ask for sex, a man rarely refuses, and the thought makes him ecstatic.
2. Exploiting sexual fantasies
The reason why people have sexual desire is that they first have thoughts about sex. This kind of thoughts will stimulate the production of endocrine in the body and provide the same effect as the hormones produced during orgasm. Before enjoying the joy of rain with the person you love, you can review the passionate games you two had before. If circumstances permit, you may also want to stimulate the sensitive areas by yourself to let the passion boil; when you are having sex with him, don’t forget to think about the pornographic scenes. The wonderful picture simulation performance guarantees that your blood will boil immediately and the climax will come. However, you should also implement it according to your own situation.
3. Boldly raise sexual demands
The main purpose of men and women's sexual life is to obtain physical and mental pleasure. If they can't even meet their own sexual requirements, how can they enjoy sexual life? Therefore, in order to seize just a few minutes to get satisfaction and pleasure, you must abandon all etiquette and reserve when having speeding sex, and tell the other person your needs directly and frankly. You can become a fierce girl and ask him to enter quickly, go deeper or move more intensely. You don't have to worry about what your bold behavior in bed will make him think of you. It's too late for him to like you.
4. Taboo sports are the most beautiful
In people's subconscious, they all have the idea of taking risks and trying excitement, but they are just restricted by various factors and are not implemented. In fact, if you want to, you can try it as long as it is safe and not leaked. The grass beside the highway, the tea room of the office building, the fitting room of the department store... Although clouds and rain are dangerous in these places, "fear" is the key to making ordinary sex more exciting. If you want to experience the ecstasy in a short period of time, the most effective way is to boldly enter the tiger's den, push sex to the edge of the scale, and play a taboo game.
5. Keep a sense of mystery
The key to why people are interested in something is that they don’t understand it. Likewise, in sex, keeping a bit of mystery can help increase sexual desire. So, don't strip her naked at once, leaving her little vest, or don't take off her high heels; in fact, even if there is only a necklace and two earrings left, it is enough to make you excited to the extreme. Moreover, these restrictive clothes and accessories will also greatly stimulate her physical and psychological sexy valves. Instantly igniting a woman's hunger and desire requires a man to have this power. Of course, the above sexual skills must be used flexibly and cannot be copied for fun, otherwise it will not help but destroy sex. At the same time, everyone should also know that using sex toys such as LELO's IRIS can greatly increase the fun of sexual life.