Body and mind integration Sex life is not just a purely physical satisfaction, but an emotional and physical integration between husband and wife. The generation of sexual desire depends on what happened a few hours or even days before sexual intercourse. Therefore, both husband and wife should strive to create various conditions for making love to create the romantic atmosphere needed for a warm sexual life.

1. Update connotation

Couples who have been married for many years sometimes feel that their sex life is monotonous and boring, and they gradually develop feelings of boredom. This is a taboo in married life. At this time, both husband and wife should boldly try to have sex at different times and places to enhance the romantic color.

2. Imagination fun

Emotional imagination can enhance sexual excitement for both parties. In the process of sexual life, the husband can imagine his wife as the passionate and bold woman he loves, and the wife can imagine her husband as the idol she loves. Both parties do not have to feel guilty about this, which can enhance each other's sexual desire. But never tell your spouse the secret of your fantasies, otherwise it will be counterproductive.

3. Avoid anger

Occasional quarrels between husband and wife do not mean that the relationship between husband and wife is already in bad condition, but if you ask for sex when the anger is not gone, the result will be trouble. The anger will not go away for a while, so it is best to stop having sex temporarily. Once the argument has subsided and both parties have reached an understanding and then fall into the arms of their spouse, they will get the sweetest sexual satisfaction.

4. Active creation

Someone in the couple may not feel sexual desire, but they should also be aware of their spouse's needs. They might as well give it a try, and you may also develop sexual desire quickly.

5. Downplaying failure

Couples should work hard to overcome sexual anxiety and sexual failure. If you regard sex life as a kind of enjoyment or an adventure, it will be easier for your spouse to reach orgasm, and it can also reduce the anxiety caused by sexual failure. .

6. Consult experts

Most couples will have temporary sexual failure. Is this possible due to physical reasons? (fatigue, infection, acute illness, etc.) and certain mental factors (mental stress, depression, work or family problems). These phenomena generally disappear within a few weeks. If the problem persists for several months without improvement, you should consult an experienced expert in time to ensure that the sexual life of the couple is improved.

7. Face reality

It is unrealistic to demand that every sex life be perfect. On the contrary, if you can face the reality, that is, sex life will not succeed every time, and sometimes even fail completely. Remember, you are a human being, not a machine.

8. Express feelings

To obtain true sexual satisfaction, both husband and wife should frequently communicate about their feelings in sexual life and promote mutual understanding, thereby satisfactorily solving the problem of inconsistent sexual desire intensity between husband and wife and coordinating the orgasms of both parties. Can make sex life more perfect.