With the development and progress of society, people are becoming more and more open-minded, and their attitudes towards sex are constantly changing. Recently, in the report "China's Human Health Feelings" released by Xiaokang magazine, there is a set of data that is thought-provoking. The latest survey in 2012 showed that 71.4% of the respondents had sex for the first time before marriage, which was a 30% increase from 1994; only 20% of the subjects did not agree with premarital sex; in addition; Chinese people have acquired sexual knowledge The channel network ranks first.

As a clinician, this result touches me a lot. On the one hand, this shows that Chinese people are more open about sex, marriage is no longer a shackles, and people have a more tolerant attitude towards premarital sex. On the other hand, I worry about the many young people who have premarital sex. Because premarital sex often causes heavy ideological burden and physical harm to unmarried men and women.

Clinically, the cause of many patients' illnesses is the psychological shadow left during their first sexual experience. When most people have premarital sex, they are still young and lack experience and knowledge. This makes men who are already nervous about sex become even more nervous and fearful. As a result, they are prone to ejaculation problems and fall into a vicious cycle of repeated attempts and failures. For women, improper contraception will cause inevitable physical and psychological harm.

As a doctor, I want to emphasize that premarital sex must be responsible for health. First of all, both men and women must learn to protect themselves, take safety measures when having sex, use condoms correctly, and prevent infectious diseases. Secondly, we must obtain sexual knowledge through legitimate channels, establish correct sexual psychology and sexual ethics, and be responsible for premarital sex to avoid psychological and physical harm. Finally, the media should strengthen the dissemination of scientific sexual knowledge, especially to provide correct guidance to teenagers, so that Adam and Eve can have a healthy body and mind to face sexual behavior.

Breaking down the four major dangers of premature sexual life for women!

1 Premature sex can cause genital duct damage and infection

Due to the immature development of the reproductive tract of adolescent girls, the vulva and vagina are very delicate, and the short surface tissue of the vagina is weak, severe tearing of the hymen and vaginal laceration can occur during sexual intercourse, resulting in heavy bleeding. At the same time, the vagina will be damaged to varying degrees. Some pathogenic microorganisms or dirt are brought into the vagina. During this period, women's own defense function is poor, which can easily cause infections of the urethra, vulva and vagina. If not controlled in time, the infection will spread.

2 Premature sex can seriously affect mental health

Because girls’ sexual behavior is often carried out secretly in a very tense state, lacking necessary preparation (mainly referring to the study of sexual knowledge and ideological preparation). At the same time, during and after sexual life, fear, guilt and regret arise due to fear of pregnancy and exposure. Over time, it can also lead to psychological abnormalities such as: aversion to men, aversion to sex life, loss of sexual desire, and sexual sensitivity. Reduction and frigidity.

3 Premature sex life can affect study and work

A girl's adolescence is in the golden age of studying, working and accumulating knowledge to lay the foundation for a brilliant future. If she has sex, it will inevitably affect her study and work energy, which is not good for herself, her family and society. Therefore, it is said that Sexual life should be avoided during adolescence. Adolescent women should cherish their youth and body, and devote their attention and interest to study and work. This is of great significance to their healthy growth, career success, and happiness in life.

4 Premature sexual intercourse may bring adverse consequences due to pregnancy

Since women begin to ovulate and become fertile after menarche, if they do not take effective contraceptive measures during sexual intercourse, they are very likely to become pregnant and undergo abortion. Abortion is not only harmful to women's bodies, causing a series of complications, including severe habitual abortions, affecting future fertility, and losing the right to be a mother; it can also cause serious psychological trauma to women, and even affect normal sexual behavior after marriage. Life.