Romance is your gentle shoulder and handkerchief when she cries; romance is when she puts on her apron to cook your favorite meal after a busy day... Romance will add a touch of rose color to the relationship, making it Love is more warm. Unfortunately, there are always some misunderstandings that can affect romantic feelings. According to Roland Miller, a professor of psychology at Houston State University, and Sharon Brehm, a master of sociology from Harvard University, it is these misunderstandings that lead to distress and dissatisfaction among lovers, and can even become the trigger for conflicts between couples:

Arguments are destructive. Some people think that as long as they love each other enough, couples will never argue about anything. But when tongues and teeth are fighting, how can two independent-minded people avoid disputes?

It is very important to have a good understanding of each other. People who hold this view mistakenly believe that couples can understand each other's meaning with just one look. If I have to tell my partner what I want, it means he or she doesn't love me enough.

Your partner will never change. After the first injury, there will be a second time - this is true. But this reality is based on "you don't communicate well." As long as we are willing, we can think about our partners, do things for them, and even change ourselves.

Every sex should be perfect. Almost no one can experience wonderful and satisfying feelings every time they have sex. In fact, sex is affected by many factors. Most of the time, one partner is unable to achieve orgasm or pleasure during sex.

Men and women cannot truly communicate. You hold this misunderstanding because you have not mastered the correct communication method and do not know how to speak to your partner.

A good marriage cannot have flaws. In reality, the relationship between the sexes is by no means "either/or". Harmony, happiness and conflicts always appear alternately.

Many people have had the above thought. They paranoidly believe that true love should take its course. Therefore, as long as there is a little problem when getting along, they will be at a loss and will not solve the problem actively and constructively. They would even rather end the relationship. This is really a bit of a waste of time. It is normal to encounter friction when getting along. Only by continuous running-in can the relationship become more stable and steadfast.