Seven things that women in their thirties don’t have to worry about

1. Give up

The opposite of grasping is giving up, choosing an opportunity, It is equivalent to giving up all other possibilities. When new opportunities are presented in front of you, dare to give up everything you have already gained. This is not a failure, this is not giving up halfway, this is to seek greater space for development; or do nothing, just because you like to do it, because, young It's the biggest opportunity. People can only have this courage, this special capital, and this qualification before they are thirty years old.

Of course men in this world are sincere when they promise you, but they also mean it when they betray you. When he no longer loves you, it is obvious that he has changed his mind, and he will only think that the advantages that attracted him in the first place have disappeared.

2. Broken Love

It’s not that I don’t care, it’s that I can’t afford to care. What you are most afraid of losing before you turn thirty is not what you already have, but your dreams. If love is just a process, then it is exactly what you should experience at this age. If you have to bear the consequences, after the age of thirty, you may be more capable and qualified. In fact, there are many things we have to do before the age of thirty, which are fleeting. Indulging in the bed of the dry love river for too long is inconsistent with the rhythm of life at this age.

3. Fashion

Don’t follow fashion. It is said that young people should be the most fashionable, but independent thinking and individual life are more important. In this materialistic society, the pursuit of fashion has already become the pursuit of money. Today, fashion is synonymous with materialism and worldliness.

4. Style

This is something of the petty bourgeoisie. The word "petty bourgeoisie" is popular again today. The pursuit of style is their patent. The petty bourgeoisie say that having style requires meeting four major requirements: wisdom, literacy, self-confidence and money. Style is to understand "noble" as the taste of clothing, temperament, hobbies and interior decoration. That is to say, big bosses can only show vulgarity in conversation, while "petty bourgeoisie" have the ability to vulgarize their souls. The mainstream concept does not necessarily have to be alternative. Alternative has become the mainstream of young people's ideas. Today, old-fashioned seems to be alternative. The key is that today's society is an era of creating ideas, not an era of adhering to old ideas.

5. Evaluation

The last sacrifice we should make is to change ourselves because of other people’s evaluation, because those who tell you what to do don’t know the rules they follow. What. Never just follow the rules. Rules are still being created. Do everything according to your own judgment, although it will be a little troublesome.

6. Childishness

Don’t be afraid of people saying we are childish. This just shows that you are still young and full of energy. "Mature" is a scary word, and it is also a harmful word. Maturity and childishness are the most inappropriate, irresponsible and useless summaries of a person. Those mediocre people will never be called naive. If you don’t believe it, one day when you are overwhelmed by life and become sluggish, people will definitely say that you are mature, and you will know what “maturity” is.

7. Not adapting

There is a sentence in a rock song: "This city has changed me, this city does not need me." Don't blindly adapt to the environment in which you live. Because it is very likely that the environment itself is no longer suitable for the development of this society.