American women prefer to masturbate

Under the dim light, women panted provocatively, nibbled on men’s ears, kicked over lamps, and pushed everything on the table to the ground... This is American erotica Common scenes in the film. In fact, in the United States, a country with an open sexual culture, similar scenes are not only played out on the screen. According to a survey, Americans have sex more than 100 times a year, but the quality of each time is questionable.

In the United States, 82% of women admit that they masturbate, and 95% of them say they can reach orgasm anytime, anywhere. For them, masturbation and orgasm are almost synonymous - as soon as they start masturbating, the orgasm will follow. "I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If touching your own body makes you feel guilty, it's hard to freely share sex with other people. Because you can't give freely and learn from it. The joy of sex.”

Precisely because of American women’s preference for masturbation, they are not as liberal as European women in their interactions with men. Recently, the American Esquire magazine interviewed more than 11,000 women with an average age of 22 around the world and found that American women are more reserved when it comes to sex. When asked whether to choose hugging or sex, 60% of American women chose sex, and the rest chose hugging; while 80% of Italian women chose sex. American women believe that even if they choose to have sex, they have to see the situation clearly before acting. On average, they need to date a man five times before they finally enter the bedroom.

Despite this, American men still carry "*" with them, and some young people simply name themselves "* addicts." Although most American men's satisfying sexual intercourse lasts no more than 2 minutes, this does not prevent them from enjoying it in a variety of ways. Recently, the "sexual position calendar" has become popular in the United States, which means marking a sexual position under each day and not repeating it for 365 days. Americans insist that all shortcomings in sexual life can be made up for by "change."

Japanese people have no time for sex

When it comes to Japanese sexual culture, most people will think of those realistic inflatable dolls and erotic videos with beautiful and sexy pictures. From this, people infer that Japanese people's sex life is bound to be passionate. In fact, in Japan, people usually only talk about "sex" as a topic of conversation after dinner.

A few days ago, a research survey by the Japanese Ministry of Health and Welfare showed that due to work stress, Japanese couples communicate less and less. In addition, the walls of Japanese-style housing are generally thin and it is difficult to maintain privacy. Therefore, most couples leave after the birth of their first child. Stopped having sex. As a result, more than 1/3 of couples do not have sex only once a month. The survey also showed that Japanese have sex only 45 times a year, compared with the global average of 103 times. Moreover, through comparison of these statistical results, the number of "asexual" families has increased year after year, which has also led to Japan's declining birthrate to some extent.

But Japan is a nation with a relatively open personality and culture. They do not think that making sexual jokes between men and women or talking about sexual issues among colleagues is a low-level behavior. On the contrary, talking about sex in leisure time makes Japanese people feel relaxed. Reporters often see hosts on TV asking celebrities about their age of first sexual experience, the time and feelings of their first kiss, etc. in evening programs.

${FDPageBreak}For the Japanese, the concept of chastity is almost non-existent. Generally speaking, their age of sexual experience is relatively early, and sexual behavior is very common among high school students. Many men will naturally accept women who have premarital sex; and women do not take their husbands' sexual behavior very seriously. For this reason, there is a popular pop song in Japan called "Incest is a man's medal." It's completely understandable for men to act a little deviant in people's eyes.

It is this concept that leads Japanese people to have no taboo on sex magazines and the pornographic industry, and Japan’s culture in this area is also very developed. Not only can sex videos be openly rented in video stores, but there are also special movie theaters for people to go to for entertainment. Even the posters of such movie theaters are eye-catching and not disguised at all. Although nude photos in some Japanese magazines have been "blocked" due to criticism from tourists from other countries, this does not mean that Japanese people no longer like to see these things. Some magazines, comics, and novels that specialize in publishing nude photos of women still have a large market, but their sales methods have become slightly more restrained.

Australia has the most perfect sex

Since most of Australia’s early residents were British immigrants, the values ​​of Western society still play a dominant role in the lives of Australians. Therefore, unlike China, Japan and other Asian countries, Australians are quite proactive in their sexual life. A 2006 sex life satisfaction survey conducted by sociologists at the University of Chicago showed that the highest level of satisfaction was in Australia, where 71% of citizens said their sex lives were very happy.

A survey in February this year showed that Australian women believe that the most sexy body parts of men are eyes (18.92%), buttocks (13.27%), chest, arms, and shoulders (9.06%). The quality they value most is a sense of humor, with up to 35% of women saying this is important for men, while financial status is not considered important.

It is precisely because of these harmonious notes in sexual life that Australians know how to respect their partners. Before Valentine's Day this year, the local international health charity "Mary Stop" launched an initiative to recommend that men get a sterilization and give it as the best gift to their girlfriends or wives. The agency said that male sterilization is safe, effective and low-cost. "Couples can enjoy better sex once they no longer need to worry about unwanted pregnancy or worry about how to prevent pregnancy all day long." From the perspective of Australian men, it is not a shameful thing to have a sterilization for the sake of their wives. Many men have already had vasectomy surgery under this call.

In terms of sexual lifestyle, 32% of the respondents said that being on top is the most popular sex position for women. This is closely followed by doggy style at 31%. Meanwhile, more than a third of women report having at least one orgasm every time they have sex, the highest rate of any country. The ways they reach orgasm are vaginal penetration (23.07%), partner's hand stimulation (21.94%), masturbation, etc.; 90% of Australian women said they are willing to try new ways of having sex because it is very beneficial to their sex life.

Ancient Chinese sexual intercourse skills cannot be lost

Compared with the sexual culture of ancient China, the sexual culture of modern Chinese people has eclipsed a lot - we are far inferior to our ancestors Know how to enjoy the joy of boudoir. Just looking at the various sexual cultural relics left over from ancient times fully proves the ancients' unremitting pursuit of the pleasure of sexual life. But as the "Book of Songs" says: "The words of the couple are not Taoist, and it is shameful to say them." The ancients who were reserved and taboo often "hidden but not exposed" or "covered but not exposed" on sexual issues. Especially the sexual repression and sexual imprisonment implemented in the middle and late feudal society further suppressed people's pursuit of sex.

The ancients called the sexual life between men and women a matter of housekeeping. As early as more than 2,000 years ago, there were many discussions on how men and women obtain sexual pleasure and tips on sexual techniques in ancient Chinese paintings. For example, the "Nine Methods" in "Su Nu Jing" and the "Thirty Methods" in "Dong Xuan Zi" are all about the exploration of sexual skills; the "Seven Loss and Eight Benefits" in "Tianxia Zhidao Tan" are Sexual Health Tips.

Deputy Chief Physician Guo Jun of the Andrology Department of Xiyuan Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Chinese Medical Sciences believes that the ancients observed and studied sexual issues meticulously and meticulously, and put forward many principles that are in line with modern scientific theories of sex, as well as colorful sexual methods. There is indeed something worth learning from today's people. For example, the ancients often associated sex life with happiness. No matter what the method, sexual enjoyment was the main purpose. Erotic novels during the Ming and Qing Dynasties were even more popular. Not only were they unprecedented in number, but they were also extremely rich in content. It can be seen that the sexual life of the people at that time was colorful and lively.

Through the observation that "indulgence in sexual pleasure harms the body", ancient doctors emphasized that while enjoying sexual pleasure, both sexes should be "happy and restrained" and take into account health and longevity. In addition, the "nine shallow and one deep" method called by the ancients advocates prolonging the foreplay time so that women's sexual desire can be improved before entering the substantive stage. Otherwise, men will ejaculate prematurely, causing sex to end hastily. These are still worth learning from.

At the same time, Dr. Guo also pointed out that ancient Chinese sexual culture inevitably contains some dross and should not be studied blindly. For example, descriptions of sexual techniques imitating animal postures in ancient books should not be imitated at will; especially "Collecting yin and replenishing yang" theory means that men are taught to absorb a woman's yin essence before ejaculation. During sexual intercourse, the man tries his best to restrain himself and refrain from ejaculating. The woman's yin essence that he attracts and condenses is sent throughout the body to promote his own health. wait. In fact, holding back ejaculation is extremely harmful to men's physical and mental health and should not be followed blindly.

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