There is a door in a man's inner world that a woman can never open. That is the door through which a man protects his love and hides his true views on the relationship between the sexes. A man does not want a woman to see his inner interpretation of the relationship between the sexes, because this will give a woman who is full of fantasy complex a shattering blow. But no matter how sweet a man talks, his most real thoughts are nothing more than these ten points:

1. In the relationship between men and women, it is often women who lead rather than men.

Facing the woman he likes, men will show great fear and insecurity in their hearts. As the saying goes: "A man chases a woman, separated by mountains; a woman chases a man, separated by layers of yarn." There is also an interesting phenomenon: among the early overseas students, the women who abandoned their husbands first often took the initiative to pursue their husbands in the first place. woman.

2. In normal interactions, it is not always the man who takes the initiative and the woman who is the passive one.

A lot of the time, men prefer women to take the initiative. Because a man is used to taking the lead in his career, but when he enters the safe haven of the world between two people, a woman's courage and positive attitude will allow the man to find a balance in the exhausting struggle.

3. The reason why men will spare no effort to pursue something is often not because they like it, but because they cannot accept failure.

A man with a career and ambition will not spend too much energy fighting for a hopeless thing. So, if you like such a man, don't play emotional tricks with him. Sometimes a man will go to great lengths to pursue a woman, not necessarily because he loves her deeply, but because he cannot accept failure. In this case, once he gets this woman, he will not have the strength to create the same romance as before, unless he still has insecurities in his heart.

4. If a woman takes the initiative to flatter a man, the man will not refuse, but he will not grow old with you.

If you find that the man you like is not interested in you at all, don’t be embarrassed and stay with him willingly. Because some men will accept anyone who comes, but their heart will never belong to you. So for such a man, give up as soon as possible.

5. No matter how fickle a man is, he will never allow his woman to cheat.

After some women cheat on their husbands, they will retaliate with their own cheating, thinking, "You are not loyal to me, and I am not loyal to you." However, such "retaliation" is often self-defeating. Because a man doesn't think there's anything great about his temporary fling, but he will never tolerate even one "betrayal" from his lover.

6. Emotionally, men are just as good at jealousy as women.

Almost 99% of men are not as broad-minded as they appear on the surface. Men are also jealous, but when this jealousy is not very strong, he will cover it up cleverly, thus Put on a magnanimous face. In fact, the last thing a man wants is to lose in love, and he will not tolerate the person he loves being obtained by others. The more insecure a man is, the more jealous he is.

7. Men are animals. If possible, they would never be willing to have a relationship with only one woman in their lives.

In the minds of men, sex and love are two completely different things. Women will always have sex with a man out of love; men will often have sex with any woman out of lust.

8. Men can’t stand women’s endless nagging.

Want to know how disgusted men are with women’s nagging? Just look at what happened to Mrs. Xianglin. It's really scary for a man to keep nagging about one thing. Not only does it fail to solve the problem, but it also makes the man's original guilt disappear by this unnecessary entanglement. The most important thing is that men will never pay attention to what women are talking about.

9. Men are animals with extremely strong self-esteem.

If you want to enter his world, you must first satisfy his self-esteem. A man's self-esteem is the last thing that can be hurt by others. He is not afraid of repeated failures, but he is very afraid of his self-esteem being hurt. So whenever you get along with a man, be sure not to touch his bottom line.

10. A man will never learn to declare his love in a woman’s ear

No matter how much a man loves you, he will never always say “I love you” on his lips . This is determined by their character. They don't like cheesy or unspeakable things, and would rather express their love in actions.