I believe everyone knows this question: When your mother and I fall into the water at the same time, which one do you save first? If a man answers that he will save his mother, this is natural and worthy of respect. If he does not even save his biological mother who has raised him for more than 20 years, which woman would dare to want such a man? Therefore, women must not compete with men's three women for favor.

Remember not to be jealous of these three women with your man

The first woman is, of course, your mother-in-law.

I don’t know how many idiotic women are still chasing men today asking me and your mother if we fall into the river at the same time, who will you save first? Do you dare to want a man who doesn't save your old mother who raised you, but instead saves you first? This woman has been living with the man you love from the first moment he was born, no, from the moment he was born. You are not asking for trouble by arguing with her or competing with her for favors. ?

What's more, filial piety comes first, and a man will definitely be filial to his mother. Even if it is not out of love, but out of responsibility and morality, they will not want to do any unfilial behavior. , making myself feel guilty and regretful.

You spend all day long competing with your mother-in-law for favor, making irresponsible remarks and reasoning about why you treat her better than me and why you let her do this but not me. This will make men feel that you are not only unfilial. , and in turn prevent him from being filial.

The second one is his sister.

Because men always have a complex about their sisters. Just like all women hope to have a brother who loves and protects them, all men also hope to have a sister who is both obedient and beautiful.

The title of elder brother has a special attraction for men, and they must spare no effort to protect this identity. The elder brother should be a hero, a superman who can solve all problems, and a family member whose sister always answers no questions no matter what he says. Brother, you should also often purl your sister's hair, bring her cute toys, help her with her homework or act as her parent to attend parent-teacher meetings.

Therefore, the honorary title of elder brother needs to be defended by men. If you compete with a man's sister for favor, it's equivalent to competing with this title, and it's equivalent to fighting against the image the man has of you. This is absolutely asking for trouble.

The last woman you need to avoid is his idol.

Many men have their own idols, such as the youthful beauty Zhou Huimin, or the charming Fan Bingbing, or the coquettish and shy Lin Chiling, or the elegant Maggie Cheung.

Some men may be a little crazy. Their computers are filled with photos of their idols. They mention their idols’ names at every turn. In their free time, they often watch movies about her or listen to her songs. They even try to find ways to have sex with their idols. Meet.

But you don’t have to worry. Men are not like women. They usually distinguish between reality and unreality very clearly. Idols are idols to them. At most, they will engage in sexual immorality or fantasy, but they will never think about it. How is it really with your idol?

On the other hand, if you are constantly jealous of a certain female star and stop her star-chasing behavior, she will make you unreasonable, unable to distinguish between reality and unreality, and even interfere with her hobbies.

In short, it is normal for women to compete for favor. After all, women are selfish animals. But competing for favor also depends on who the target is, right? With some people, no matter how hard you try or what tricks you play, you won't be able to succeed because you and his woman are not equal in weight. There are other people you don’t have to fight with at all, because they don’t pose any threat no matter how much you fight.