Sex education in modern society lags far behind precocious puberty

From the previous "pornographic photos scandal" to the later "pants-removing scandal", a series of "immoral" incidents have had a very bad impact on minors. Even some children followed suit and behaved in ways that were inappropriate for their age. While people are condemning his low morals and lack of legal concepts, have they ever thought about the cause of the matter?

On the one hand, children do this because they have a weak concept of legality. They must not think that this is illegal. Among the few legal provisions they know, they are related to sexual harassment, indecency, sexual assault and sexual crimes. There must be very few or very vague; on the other hand, its direct motivation is also very simple, nothing more than curiosity, teasing, and impulsiveness, so that it cannot extricate itself

According to human nature, people begin to be curious about "sex" in adolescence. Firstly, it comes from the mystery and curiosity of society about sex since ancient times. Secondly, it comes from their doubts about their own youthful development, coupled with the physical development. Immature, the functions of the nervous, endocrine and other regulatory systems are particularly imperfect, making them psychologically impulsive, difficult to control, and weak in endurance. This will inevitably lead to "temporary confusion".

The formation of a person's moral concepts is greatly influenced by the environment. Currently, sex education in schools is very weak, and sex education in families is also uneven. In contrast, sex education in society is pervasive: online, paper The media, various advertisements, and the words and behaviors of adults in society; mainstream sound personality, establishing noble sexual ethics, shaping male and female gender roles with civilized charm, improving scientific sexual values, cultivating elegant sexual aesthetics and performance capabilities, and learning to establish The method of harmonious interpersonal relationships between the sexes is too weak. Compared with the pluralistic sexual culture in society, the former has little influence on teenagers, and the construction of sexual morality for teenagers is even more distant. We have to say, "Sex education has lagged far behind"!

Naturally, social sexual and cultural freedom is social progress, but it requires a prerequisite. Just writing "Not suitable for those under 18 years old" on some works is not very timely, but will arouse the curiosity of increasingly precocious teenagers! What is needed is to strengthen sex education for teenagers! From psychological defense to the establishment of moral consciousness, from legal concepts to the improvement of sexual values, from sexual scientific judgment to the cultivation of sexual aesthetic consciousness.

Sex education is a process that guides people on how to become healthy, confident, and happy good men and women. It is a process that improves the quality of men and women, and it is a process that enhances social civilization. This requires government support, school implementation, and parents. cooperation and the creation of a social atmosphere. For the sex education of teenagers, every adult has an unshirkable responsibility. This is one of the components of our sex education and is the great trust given to every adult by society!