Scenes of white-collar apartments are constantly appearing in youth idol dramas, and it seems that sharing apartments with opposite sex has become a fashion.

Heterosexuals sharing apartments is no longer just a plot found in TV dramas. In Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, opposite-sex housing is becoming a new phenomenon. It is said that some rental information now clearly specifies that "opposite-sex accommodation" is required because this is more attractive.

A questionnaire survey of nearly 4,000 white-collar workers showed that 95% of white-collar workers like to share apartments with others. More than 85% of the respondents said that they can selectively accept living with the opposite sex. Some people say that heterosexual co-housing adds a touch of humanity to the concrete urban jungle. But more people are watching with suspicion -

A pair of strange men and women live under the same roof. What will happen in the meantime?

"You think this matter is too complicated. In fact, it is nothing special." Liu Ying told reporters. Liu Ying, who works in an advertising company, has been sharing this unit with her colleague Xiao Sun for almost two years. In the company, the two of them were relatively close friends. After returning to their residence, the two of them cooked and ate separately, watched TV and read books in their own rooms, and did not spend much time chatting together. It was a little uncomfortable at first, but I quickly got used to it. "When we return home, we are actually in a relationship between tenants. We can help each other, but that's it. We just want to find a place to live temporarily."

This is a popular view: Sharing is to reduce financial burdens. As for whether the co-tenant is male or female, it is nothing more than letting nature take its own course. Whether it's the same sex or the opposite sex, each has its own pros and cons. But these are not important, the key is to live comfortably.

But this is not the only reason. Zhang Liwu just graduated from college in July and was assigned to a cultural exchange company. When he was looking for a place to live, he said it would be best to share a house with someone of the opposite sex. He no longer wants to live in the boys' dormitory life in college. Two people of the opposite sex will blend in and complement each other, and they will definitely become good friends.

However, friends are friends, and they are both adults with rational thinking and ability to deal with things. Even if opposite sexes get along, they always maintain two parallel lines, and the moral bottom line will not be breached. Ding Xiaozhong, who calls herself a "little girl," said that it was too lonely to be alone in an empty room with no one to talk to.

But her principle in choosing roommates is not to find people of the same sex. Because girls tend to care about each other, which makes people feel too tired. Boys are energetic and girls are meticulous. This can not only reduce personal financial pressure, but is also much more interesting and feels better than being alone.

When renting a house, there is always some charming and romantic vision. They don't know each other at first, but they live under the same roof and meet each other without looking up, which inevitably leads to small situations of mutual communication... In short, regardless of gender or personality, in a shared apartment, strange men and women can become friends, or maybe We are strangers; of course, with luck, we may eventually get married.

But it’s best not to have too many ideas, as the results may be disappointing. Renting a house is not about dating, everyone is looking for a place to stay, and the chance of being a "talented man and a good-looking woman" is very low. The two may have known each other for a long time, or they may have become bored with each other due to their huge personality differences, and they may not even be friends.

In general, this is still a relatively avant-garde thing and has not yet been accepted by most people. In this situation, the pressure on the woman will be greater. After all, we live in a unit and share the bathroom, bathroom, living room, and kitchen... If both parties "don't catch a cold" with each other, there will often be some awkwardness. If there are some "mutual love", "food and sex", and long-term close contact, it is possible to lose control of reason at a certain time and environment, with endless troubles.

A scholar said that regardless of whether the restrictions on people in the old era were right or wrong, the loosening of people's spirits ultimately reflects the progress of society. However, once all restrictions are removed, certain consequences may also occur. Negative effects.

Therefore, relevant experts have given advice to opposite-sex co-tenants, especially women. Both parties to the joint tenancy should agree on the proportion of expenses shared in advance. Girls, in particular, should maintain their own dignity and sobriety, and do not rely too much on each other or yell at them casually just like they do with their boyfriends just because they have known each other for a long time.

Don’t interfere with each other’s privacy. Do not wear too casual or sexy clothes in the living room or public places. It is best to make some contingency preparations, such as telling your phone number to your friends; bringing your boyfriend out and introducing him to them; inviting some friends back for a get-together when you have time, and welcoming them to join; when you are alone in the room, remember Close the door and be sure to lock it when sleeping.

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