A single woman who refuses a one-night stand does not necessarily want to be a guardian of chastity or morality. She refuses to have sex with a strange man just for the sake of her own physical and mental balance.

Are you 28 or 30? Did you just break up with your live-in boyfriend? Or just divorced? Yes, he took away the personality that irritated you, but he also took away a male body that satisfied you. You don’t want to sit around doing nothing every night and end up dreaming with a stuffed toy in your arms. You enjoy sex - Single women of this age crave great sex. However, your Mr.right has not appeared yet.

What to do? If you don't mind a depraved and immoral lifestyle, it seems like all you're after is a crappy sex partner. So how can you stop yourself from falling? Don’t want to discourage you, honey, but there’s no magic bullet, just give us a better understanding of your motivations for seeking out a one-night stand.

Sexual desire

Don't avoid reality. You are indeed easily seduced by the smell of sex and the throbbing of sweat. Nothing can stop your sexual desire, even if you see that the strange man in front of you means trouble.

To show off in front of friends

You're really behind on sex. You can't stand spending night after night clinging to the TV without a steamy sex story - so you do. Sadly, the only benefit of doing this is bragging to your girlfriends.

Sex after falling out of love

This is the revenge mentality after a broken love. It is not because you are really interested in a strange man, but more because you are in a state of madness. You don’t really know what you’re doing or why you’re doing it, you just know it feels good and pisses off your ex.

It’s true that someone offends you somewhere, and that’s a terrible way for you to seek balance. Remember – sex is not the best way to get revenge.

It seems that one-night stand should be very happy, and some novels and movies also describe it as very exciting. However, many women say that a few days later, the remaining memories will make them break out in a cold sweat.

Can one-night stands really enhance our sexual performance? Is it really something you can use to remind yourself that you’re still attractive? Or is it the body’s need to relax? In fact, a one-night stand is nothing, as long as you understand the fact that after a one-night stand, life is still basically the same as before, no one calls you, no one invites you to dinner on Saturday night, no one gives you gifts Flowers and say thank you for the wonderful lovemaking. The only thing that changes is that there are more hormones pumping through your body.

Before your hormones start to kick in, you have to stop and think. When his eyes lock on yours, does he murmur about what a sexy girl you are. How can you stop yourself from saying "Yes!" when your heart is screaming "No!" How can you avoid an affair that literally sucks all your energy out and shakes the life you've spent a lifetime building? The confidence and self-esteem you built up, only to have everything destroyed in salty tears?

Many times, a woman who falls for a one-night stand can only end up in tears, and the one-night stand becomes her most dirty and painful memory. This is a very real part of single life.

So, as a single man or woman, how do you vent your passion and energy? The masturbation option is the least likely to cause injury.

There is another way that people ignore, that is, it may be better to go to a masseur frequently and release your tension in their kneading. (Did you know that masseuses have many more single clients than married ones? Why? Because we want to be touched so much.) Imagine feeling the warm hands of an experienced masseuse on your back Feeling - your whole body will become very comfortable.

Finally, let us end with a famous saying:

Why do we always feel restless and irritable after a night of passion - it feels like we just passed an exam and now we have to wait for the results.