Sex life is both happy and rigorous. It is happy because both men and women can get the ultimate physical and mental pleasure, and rigorous because many details determine the amount of pleasure. Therefore, sex must be treated from a correct perspective and one must not easily believe the lies in it. Here are a few widely spread lies, please don’t believe them!

Lie 1: Foreplay and afterplay affect the pleasure of sexual life

Many people believe that sex should always be impromptu. In fact, in a busy and tense life, it is difficult for us to have natural passion, so waiting blindly can only make the good time we should have pass by quietly. While many experts don't advocate prescribing sex, they do advocate setting aside time for good sex.

Just think about it, how long does it take you to make a dish? Although the sex that makes you feel satisfied does not depend on the length of time, but the fun in the process, if the time is too short and there is no time to share each other's feelings, then sex life is just a mechanical action. Foreplay is especially important for increasing sexual interest. You can take a bath with your husband and help him apply bubbles all over his body. He will definitely feel a strange feeling.

Lie 2: Women’s strong sex affects men

Many successful white-collar women worry that they are too strong. It can lead to sexual impotence in the husband. But this is not the case, and men's "failure" may be caused by a variety of factors. Women's independence is a charm to men. From a male's point of view, the most attractive women are those who are passionate and active about sex. The kind of women who don't put any thought into sex and just passively perform obligatory sexual intercourse are It will make the husband impotent.

Lie 3: Communicating about sex life is a lewd thing

Many women have this inherent misconception. Only when both parties express their feelings openly can sex be full of freshness. Many women who encounter trouble in their marriages always believe that men's transference is mostly due to their growing dislike of them. In fact, it’s just that they don’t know you well enough, they’re not committed enough, and they’re not enthusiastic about the relationship. This is the main cause of sexual burnout.

Lie 4: Contraception will affect the pleasure of sexual life

With the implementation of the family planning policy today, taking contraceptive measures is a must. Women with this concept are often selfless and only think about making their husbands satisfied and happy, but forget that they may have to endure pain and helplessness. If he truly loves you, he will definitely understand what you are doing.