It is said that men are sexual animals, and what they think about most is sex. It seems that once they are driven by sexual libido, they will have a one-night stand at any time. So, what is the truth?

Do all men like one-night stands?

1. I’ve never thought about one-night stands

My wife is my classmate, and my natural marriage life prevents me from contacting other women. I'm very happy with the sex I have with my wife, and I can't think of any reason why I would have a one-night stand. I never dare or want to take the initiative to provoke other women, because if I have sex with a woman, it must be because I love this woman and nothing else!

Hu Bugui, 30 years old, stock broker

2. I had a one-night stand experience when I was young

In the stories and rumors, it seems that almost all the men have had it once or twice, and those who have not have it are the exceptions. I also had such a ridiculous experience when I was young, but now I no longer like a casual relationship. I now like to have a stable woman to develop an intimate relationship with me. I am willing to care about her. This kind of relationship makes me feel warm.

Xiaopo, 35 years old, photographer

3. I would feel uncomfortable

We were in love with each other since we were in love, and it was very free and easy to break up at dawn. There was once a popular book called "Breaking Up at Dawn", but those people must have structures that I don't understand. I can't be very free and easy. I will worry about the woman I have an intimate relationship with and have sex with a strange woman. I wouldn't be comfortable, I definitely can't.

Chunlei 30 years old, freelancer

4. I'm curious why women would have a one-night stand with me

It is difficult for me to understand what would happen to a man and a woman who have never met each other before. If I could meet them, where would it be? What kind of woman would she be, and why did we get so close in such a short time? Although short, there are definitely a lot of details in it. I am very curious, if I have the chance, maybe I will try it, who knows?

5. I won’t go around messing around with women

I love meeting women who attract me and make me feel alive and passionate. But I just admire them, just like appreciating a flower. If I want to have sex with a woman, I will work hard to develop an emotional relationship with her beforehand.

One night talk with a 38-year-old professional manager

6. One night stand is a game when you are bored

How to say it? When my wife and I were living apart, a friend took me to a one-night stand place, and I didn't refuse in the end. Sometimes, a one-night stand is just loneliness and boredom, and there can't be too many male emotions in it. Later, my wife and I reunited and I never went to such a place again. In fact, I loved my wife very much.

Mr. Pang, 34 years old, doctor

7. Affectionate "one-night stand" is acceptable

No matter how open-minded modern people are, I still think that as long as a rational person can do such a thing, thinking and judgment are indispensable. In this case, love still dominates the one-night stand. Otherwise why not call it one night sex. Therefore, as long as there is a coincidence and there is a real understanding between each other, it is understandable what will happen.

Lu Fan, 37 years old, civil servant

8. One night stand is enjoyable

I like one-night stands, but I have to let her know that we are just having a one-night stand. This kind of sex will be more varied and fun. I have a lot of energy, and my wife can't satisfy me, but I won't let my wife know about it. On the surface, I'm still a traditional man.

Artai, 31 years old, equestrian coach

What percentage of men have had one-night stands? There are no precise sociological statistics. We know this is a common phenomenon, but there is no need for women to become FBI and lose trust in men.

In a relationship between the sexes, both men and women need to set their own bottom lines. After all, the relationship between marriage and love also includes a commitment to be loyal to each other. For some romantic men, the advice is: don’t do it!