In fact, many people complain about why they find that sex is becoming less and less fun. A boring sex life will always give people a kind of escape mentality, which means that you don’t know much about some of the skills of sex. The following editor will explain Let me tell you some sex secrets that you may not know yet.

NO.1: Rapid breathing - make the other party intoxicated

"The thing that blew me away was his breath on my neck. We were both college students at the time, and he was explaining a very complicated scientific experiment to me. He was standing behind me, and when he lowered his head I smelled him. I smelled the smell on my body and felt his breathing, which was warm and a little rapid... Then he put his hand on my arm, and now I was completely dizzy, just like what was said in "Six Chapters of a Floating Life", 'I don't know. There is even more of this." ——Xiaozhuang, 31 years old

Expert interpretation: Breathing itself can awaken some primitive instincts, and the same is true for animals. In addition to the rapid exhalation of hot breath, there is another important factor that also conveys the message of sex, and that is body odor. Whether it’s the smell of breath, sweat, or saliva, it all conveys this message. As for whether it can work effectively, it depends on the mutual feelings of both parties.

If you are not interested in that man, then these smells will only make you shy away and stay away. But if you like him, then these smells will cast a dragnet and trap your heart tightly. Indeed, only people with "similar smells" can enter the depths of each other's hearts and taste the fruits of love together.

NO.2: Physical feeling - dominant

"If he wants to have sex and I want him too, there will be a sexy atmosphere surrounding us. Even if neither of us touches the other, we clearly know what we and the other are thinking. If at this time My hand accidentally touched his, and it was like an electric discharge," 33-year-old Xiaoxue said.

At this time, physical sensations are dominant. Human language is sometimes unreal, but the human body never lies. At that moment, a primitive instinct deep in the human heart was suddenly awakened. It is an extremely strong desire and a powerful temptation that makes you have wild imaginations. Let the experts help us interpret these 4 seductive little moves and see how they make us excited and want to stop.

NO.3: Bright and affectionate eyes - can beautify the other person

"That time he stared at me directly without blinking. I saw an extremely strong desire in his eyes. My heart suddenly became chaotic. From that moment on, I knew I want to have sex with him. I will never forget the look in his eyes at that time." - Cheng Leilei, 24 years old

Expert interpretation: When the pupils dilate, the eyes will become bright and clear. And when you see someone you like, your pupils dilate slightly. This is very beneficial for people who fall in love, because the face they see of their lover is always blurry and shrouded in a halo. At this time, the small flaws on the face will disappear, the ugly people will become passable, the passable people will become beautiful, and the beautiful people will look like gods.

What people in love see is not the real person, but the person they imagine in their mind, which is a projection of their own inner hallucinations. No wonder “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Why do lovers’ eyes always sparkle? They are caressing each other with their eyes.

Sexual happiness comes from multiple interactions between husband and wife

Tame yourself and you will tame your husband

Why Does Marriage Feel Lonely? Mostly because of failed expectations. We originally expected our partners to be able to meet our needs and heal our own wounds, but we never expected that any outward needs cannot be satisfied. Sometimes the other person simply doesn't have the ability to fill the pain in your heart, just like two people holding empty bowls, desperately asking the other person to give themselves some first. In the end, they fight over each other, the bowl is broken, and they get nothing.

For example, if your father's scolding makes you lose self-confidence, this person will be particularly attracted to people who have the same qualities as his father. But she hopes that this time the other person will change for her, let her regain her confidence, and the wounds can be healed. However, it usually backfires and she is hurt again.

Many people punish others for problems buried within themselves. In fact, everyone grows up with the wounds of their original family, and everyone has some shortcomings. Studies have found that people with fatal attractions often have similar traits to the parent who has hurt them.

The gift you want, you give it first

Whatever you want the other person to give you, you might as well give it to the other person first, and things will change over time. People have the bad nature of "the more you want me to do something, I won't do it". The more you want to change the other person, the harder it will be to achieve your goal.

For example, a woman always looks forward to her boyfriend giving her affirmation and praise, but the other person always gives her more criticism and analysis than comfort, making her often angry and frustrated. However, making some changes, first learning to praise the other person without hesitation, will unknowingly lead to positive interaction between the two.

Let go of your expectations for the other person

Let go of your expectations for each other! Many times what others say makes us feel hurt and angry. In fact, it is because the old wounds in our hearts have not healed. It is just that this person has stepped on the painful spot and detonated a landmine. You must learn to accept and let go, feel and bravely accept all kinds of negative emotions you have in the moment.

The power of change is like sowing a seed. Every time you put it down, it is like constantly watering the seed. You must first heal yourself and make yourself better. One day, I no longer get angry when I think of the other person, and the resentment that has troubled me for many years is driven out of my heart. Not only does I feel relaxed, but I can also make more space to love others

Why do many people complain that their married life is different from what they originally imagined, and that various conflicts and problems have arisen? In fact, these are normal phenomena, as long as we can master the skills and methods of getting along with husband and wife. , be more understanding and tolerant, then these will no longer be problems.