Sexual fantasies refer to self-written and self-directed continuous stories with sexual overtones when sexual desire is not satisfied. It is a common sexual phenomenon among humans. This kind of sexual fantasy can add a lot of flavor to sex life, but it is something that many people find difficult to talk about. Sexual fantasies are incorrect and shameful behavior in the eyes of many people. Whether this is really the case, let us find out together.

Are sexual fantasies correct?

Sexual fantasy cannot be judged in terms of right and wrong. It has two sides. On the one hand, sexual fantasies can make people fully appreciate the excitement of sexual life, which will make people enjoy sex more. If there is no sex life, simple sexual fantasies will express people's sexual desire, which is a reasonable expression. channel. On the other hand, if sexual fantasies are excessive, it is easy to produce sexual hallucinations. Sexual hallucinations are the main means of satisfying sexual desire. This is a psychological disorder. Moreover, after some people fantasize for a long time, they will not be able to distinguish between fantasy and reality, and may even embark on the path of breaking the law and committing crimes. Therefore, sexual fantasies cannot be judged simply by right and wrong. If the sexual fantasies only provide services to oneself and will not interfere with other people's lives, it is reasonable. If the sexual fantasies have affected other people's lives and safety, it has affected oneself. Mental health is unreasonable, it depends on your choice.

How should men restrain their sexual fantasies?

1. Distinguish between fantasy and reality

The objects of some human fantasies are celebrities, and the objects of some human fantasies are people around them, people they know. In this way, one thing must be made clear, that is, fantasy is fantasy and reality is reality. Never take it for granted. Sexual fantasies transformed into reality. Just because you have made up a story about someone else in your mind, you cannot think that others are interested in you and that you can have sex with others. This is completely irrational logic.

2. Pay attention to the expression of desire

Sometimes sexual fantasies are simply made up in the mind, sometimes they exist simultaneously with sexual life, and sometimes they are suitable for masturbation. No matter what form it is, you must pay attention to venting your desires. Sexual fantasies exist for the purpose of venting desires. They are a type of eroticism. While fantasizing, you must pay attention to your own feelings. Otherwise, sexual fantasies and reality will be out of sync, which will make people feel confused.

3. Don’t be addicted

Sexual fantasy is a very free method of masturbation. Anyone can become the object of sexual fantasy, and anything can happen in sexual fantasy. All the plots follow my own thoughts, so everything happens according to my own thoughts. Even the details of the relationship between two people can be imagined. The pleasure this brings is unimaginable, which also means it’s very easy to get addicted to. Indulging in sexual fantasies has a great impact on real life. First of all, it makes people unable to distinguish between reality and fantasy, which can easily cause trouble to people in real life. Secondly, it will delay people's normal study and life, make people unintentional to work and study, make work inefficient, and reduce academic performance.

Sexual fantasy is a reasonable behavior as long as it does not affect others and does not cause psychological obstacles to oneself. Don't think it is particularly shameful. The pursuit of pleasure should be respected. I hope everyone can control their sexual fantasies and not indulge in them.