When the baby is very young, many parents choose to sleep in the same bed with their baby. This is not only convenient for taking care of the baby, but also gives the baby a sufficient sense of security. However, some parents report that sleeping in the same bed with their babies greatly affects their sex life, and some even cannot have sex for a long time. How should you have sex when sleeping with your baby? Let’s find out next.

How should you have sex when sleeping with your baby?

1. Pay attention to your energy

When the baby is very young and has to get up several times every night, the mother's energy will inevitably be affected. Sometimes the baby makes you too tired and you don’t have the strength and energy to have sex anymore. At this time, the father can step forward and help the mother share the responsibility of taking care of the child. Fathers can make milk powder for their children at night and take responsibility for floods. In this way, the mother can not only feel the father's love for her, but also have enough energy to have sex.

2. Make sure the baby is asleep before proceeding

When the baby enters the sleep state, he will not wake up for a period of time. During this period, he can have sex and he will be less likely to be affected by the baby. When the child just falls asleep, you can gently pat the child's body and pat rhythmically to help the child enter a deep sleep state faster. When the child is asleep, you can have sex. You must seize the time and don't waste it, because the child is in a sleep cycle every hour and may wake up. After the child has thought about it, if the mother takes care of the baby, the father will easily lose his temper, and it will be more difficult to have sex again.

3. You can leave the bedroom temporarily

Some people make louder sounds when having sex. In order not to wake up the baby, they can temporarily move the position. You can go to the living room to have sex and experience different stimulations. However, if you live with your parents at the same time and go to the living room, you will be easily discovered by the elderly, which will be more embarrassing. If there are other bedrooms in California, you can go to that bedroom to have sex. If there is no other bedroom, you can go to the bathroom to have sex, just lock the door.

4. What to do when the child wakes up

When having sex, I am afraid that the child will wake up and interrupt the sex life, making it difficult to get into the mood again. At this time, you can move the position of sexual life to the big bed where you sleep with your baby. The mother comforts the baby while continuing to have sex, believing that this way she can maintain the integrity of her sex life. The child wakes up not because he is hungry. At this time, the mother gently pats the child a few times, and the child will fall asleep again, so that sex life will not be delayed.

5. Two people must communicate well

Two people sleep with a baby between them. This is the pattern in many families where parents and children live in the same bed. But this will affect the intimacy between two people. Hugging is also a very important way to communicate feelings. You can push one side of the large bed against the wall, and then let the baby sleep in the innermost part and the couple sleep on the other side. This way, sleeping together will increase the intimacy between the couple and make the relationship between the two people better.

Being in the same bed with your baby will indeed cause certain difficulties for two people to have sex. But there are always more methods than difficulties. As long as two people have feelings, understand each other, and help each other, they can also have a harmonious sex life.