Introduction to the salient features of lubricants and tips for applying lubricants
Under normal circumstances, as long as a woman is fully aroused, she does not need to use vaginal lubricant. Unless there are special circumstances, it is recommended for menopausal women with reduced secretions. Lubricants produced by regular manufacturers are low-allergenic and will generally not cause significant side effects if selected and used with the help of specialists in regular hospitals.
What are the salient characteristics of lubricants
More natural: The acidity and viscosity are exactly the same as human secretions, making it feel more harmonious to use.
More hygienic: easy to clean afterwards, non-greasy and non-allergenic.
Safer: Water-soluble lubricants do not change the latex molecular structure of condoms and are more effective in preventing the transmission of viral pathogens (such as HIV).
More environmentally friendly: Silicone oil is non-degradable, while water can be absorbed by the human body. Water-soluble lubricated condoms are environmentally friendly products and are in line with international trends.
Since water-soluble ingredients are easily evaporated by the air and absorbed by the skin, they easily lose their effectiveness after drying, so they have a short acting time (but will resume their effects after replenishing moisture); please use it immediately after opening, and when sex is long or too intense Please replenish in time; water-soluble lubricants are not suitable for anal sex.
The main component of water-soluble lubricants is water, so they feel the most natural and are the most convenient to use. It can be used with latex condoms and is less likely to cause allergies. However, since water-soluble ingredients are easily evaporated by air and absorbed by the skin, their action time is short.
What are some tips for applying lubricant
First you have to get her lubricated. There are many lubricants you can use, and some are particularly viscous. Petroleum products such as petroleum jelly or Abolene are very suitable. It can make the surface of the applied surface not dry for a long time, and there is no need to re-apply. However, this kind of oil will stain the sheets, and some people don't like the feeling of applying it. This type of lubricant cannot be used with latex products such as condoms because it will damage the latex material. Many water-soluble lubricants also have different viscosities. We recommend that you use KY Jelly (Kelly Jelly), which has a good viscosity among water-soluble lubricants. It is quite interesting to apply lubricant all over the sexual organs. If you've been caressing your clitoris for a while and she starts to feel dry, you can dip your fingertips in some water and add it to the original lubricant. The applied area will regain its original lubrication. Some people like to use Astroglide which is very liquid.
You can create your own style of applying lubricant. It depends on the type of oil you prefer and its consistency. You can lubricate your partner with a nice caress. When I use KY gel, I usually apply it slowly along the labia majora and majora, starting from the perineum. I use two to three fingers, and when I touch the clitoris, I will open my fingers and be careful not to lubricate the clitoris. Another method is to lubricate the two labia minora with slow and careful caresses. This is a good technique for those who like to apply Vaseline. You can take some time to lubricate the two labia minora until you are close to the clitoris, then caress and apply them back and forth in the opposite direction. You can also caress the area just below her clitoris, which is called the vestibule. You can even apply and caress her clitoris upwards, letting your fingertips stay on the clitoris for a few seconds, and then return to the vestibule. superior. You can come up with all the creative ways to lubricate your partner so that she has something different every time you have sex.
There are two areas you must keep dry, including the foreskin covering her clitoris and the thumb of your stroking hand. This way, your thumb won't slip off when you open the foreskin and press her clitoris. The clitoris is prone to slipping away during caressing. This usually occurs when you caress someone for the first time. This is the body's natural reaction to resistance. Even after touching each other many times, the same thing still happens. Some women's clitoris slips more easily than others when receiving caress. The clitoris is buried deep in the foreskin. Pressing the clitoris with your fingers can prevent it from slipping away.
To hold down the clitoris, first you must use the fleshy part of your thumb to push the foreskin above her clitoris to the left (if you are right-handed), and then press towards her clitoris, that is, between the top of the clitoris and the Where the shafts meet. Then remove the foreskin to expose the clitoris. If you are left-handed, push your left thumb toward the left side of the foreskin to expose the clitoris. At this moment, you can touch the clitoris directly with your middle finger or index finger as you like, and your thumb can resist it with gentle to medium force. This can avoid sliding when pressing the clitoris.