A questionnaire survey conducted by psychological counseling showed that women are mostly able to accept sexual masturbation from men, while men often find it difficult to accept sexual masturbation from women. Men are far more likely than women to admit to masturbating to their sexual partners and to masturbate in front of their sexual partners.

The reasons are: First, social gender roles have instilled the concept that men have strong sexual desire and women have weak sexual desire. Men’s masturbation is easier to understand than women’s masturbation; second, mainstream culture regards sex as a shameful thing, and sexual masturbation is even more of a Marginal sexual behavior is contrary to the image of a "lady"; thirdly, women's masturbation undermines men's sexual self-confidence, making them blame themselves for failing to satisfy women. Perhaps more importantly: we still live in an atmosphere with far-reaching influence of male-dominated culture. The deep psychological reason for resistance to sexual masturbation is the private desire for sexual behavior of sexual partners. Women masturbating can make selfish men feel that their sexual rights have been violated.

The prejudice in mainstream society is that masturbation is only a supplement to sexual intercourse. First of all, it is affirmed that masturbation has the value of independent sexual behavior. At the same time, it should also be noted that masturbation by women is also beneficial to men.

Will "masturbation" cause hymen rupture

As for hymen rupture caused by masturbation, it will not cause rupture as long as something is not inserted into the vagina. However, before the statement that "masturbation is absolutely harmless", it must be emphasized that you should never touch important parts with unclean fingers, or insert long and thin vegetables or debris into the vagina. This is not only unclean, but also easy to cause Danger must be avoided, not to mention. In fact, everyone can face the matter of "masturbation" openly. It can be said more directly that masturbation is accompanied by everyone's life. Even if you are married and have sex, masturbation will not disappear because of this.

The correct way for women to masturbate

Use your middle finger to caress the clitoris, the golden triangle, and the vaginal opening. Some people also use their index finger, middle finger, and thumb to grasp the clitoris to get a slight pleasure. Sometimes it is performed lying on your stomach or sitting with your back against a wall.

If you press your lower body against the soft bed, you will feel an indescribable pleasure. If you put your fingers on the vagina again, press or rub it, you will feel strong pleasure and make a moaning sound. If you move your waist up and down and twist your body, you will enter a real state of ecstasy, which will lead to tears and drooling, and all the tension will be eliminated.

When taking a bath, relax your whole body and your sexual desire will increase rapidly. When it becomes unbearable, you can only masturbate. When climbing a tree, holding the tree trunk between your thighs is the same as holding a pillow between your legs for masturbation. Another type of masturbation that is more realistic is to straddle "his" thigh and move your waist like riding a horse.