It is good to be satisfied with your first sex life on your wedding night. However, since newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge and have just come into contact, it is normal for them to be nervous, shy and fearful and not very satisfied with their life. This has nothing to do with the harmony of their sexual life in the future. In the future, with the passage of time, the enrichment of sexual knowledge, and the accumulation of sexual experience, sexual harmony will surely be achieved. In order to make your wedding night more sweet, you should pay attention to the following points:

First of all, learn some sexual knowledge together before marriage. Reading some books about sexual knowledge can help newlyweds understand sexual anatomy, sexual physiology, sexual psychology, sexual behavior and other related knowledge, so that they can be well aware of it and avoid "hasty battles".

Second, accept a premarital examination. Follow the local designated hospitals to receive premarital examinations. The doctors responsible for premarital examinations will patiently provide guidance on sexual life, newlywed health care, and family planning knowledge. If you don’t understand something after reading a book about sex, you can also ask the doctor for advice during the premarital examination.

Third, pay attention to the balance between work and rest before marriage. Before marriage, you are busy with dowry arrangements and social activities. If you do not pay attention to the balance between work and rest, you will easily become overworked. Excessive fatigue on the wedding night will affect the function of sexual life. Therefore, you should arrange time reasonably before marriage, pay attention to rest, and avoid excessive fatigue.

Fourth, we must combine sexual response cycles and control sexual behavior reasonably. The sexual response cycle can be divided into the excitement period, duration period, climax period and extinction period. Sexual excitement is the preparation stage of sexual life, the duration and climax stages are the stages of sexual intercourse; the sexual desire subsidence period is the end stage of sexual life. The hallmarks of the excitement phase are the erection of a man's penis, an increase in secretions from the Bartholin glands in a woman's vagina, and vaginal lubrication.