In many people's dreams, love dreams are one that often appears but is difficult to share with others. Behind it, there are actually many true thoughts hidden. Recently, the American magazine "Yueji" published the 8 most common sex dreams and asked a number of psychologists and sexologists to interpret them.

Psychologist Freud believed that the function of dreams is to protect sleep. When people fall asleep, self-vigilance is relaxed, and repressed wishes (often sexual) rush into consciousness to interrupt sleep, and these wishes are allowed The imaginative process of transforming unconscious wishes into dreams, which find partial expression in the disguise of dreams, is called dream work.

Since seeking and revealing the mysteries of sex is what teenagers yearn for, they want to know the secrets of both sexes. Therefore, everything related to sex around them, such as movies, pornographic books, pornographic stories, female pictures, and intimate actions between parents, will have various impacts on them. In the waking state, you have the ability to control yourself, so you usually hide it in your heart without expressing it. After falling asleep, the brain's control temporarily disappears, so sexual instincts and desires will be reflected in dreams. Therefore, sexual dreams are mostly a natural expression caused by the traces left by sexual stimulation. Nocturnal emissions are the main sign of male sexual maturity, and sexual maturity may be an important physiological reason for sexual dreams.

Dream 1: Dreaming about having intimate behaviors with superiors and colleagues. Leslie, a 26-year-old single female teacher, does not usually have much contact with her colleagues, but she often dreams that a male colleague takes her to ride horses outdoors. In the dream, the stimulation of the saddle made her enjoy the pleasure and even moaned. Leslie often felt embarrassed about this.

Dr. Pam Spar, an expert in interpersonal psychology in London, UK, said that dreaming about superiors and colleagues does not mean that you subconsciously want to have a relationship with them. It mostly means that you admire this person's ability and hope that he or she will give you guidance. and help. Horses often appear in women's sexual dreams, and women who like to masturbate may dream of petting horses.

Dream 2: Dreaming about having sex in public. 29-year-old Dina dreamed that she met a strange man at the airport. After the man struck up a conversation, he pulled her into his arms and the two began to have sex in full view of the public. The funniest thing for Dina was that she couldn't see the man's face clearly in the dream.

Carol L. Cummings, a dream analysis expert in Arizona, USA, said that this type of sex dream reveals an open mind, indicating that you are looking forward to a new relationship and are passionate about a new emotional life. "Can't see the man's face clearly" is a kind of self-protection, indicating that the heart is still preparing for the arrival of new feelings.

Dream 3: Dreaming about being intimate with someone of the same sex. Jian Yin, a 37-year-old nurse, dreamed that she met a woman in a coffee shop. As she drank the coffee, foam splashed onto her mouth, and the woman smiled and kissed her lips and neck. In reality, Jian Yin does not have homosexual tendencies.

Dr. Spahr said that dreaming about having sex with someone of the same sex does not mean that your sexual orientation has changed. It just means that you expect to receive more care and consideration in sex, and that you desire your partner to be more gentle. It also shows that you expect to be understood by people of the same sex in your life.

Dream 4: Dreaming about having sex with a celebrity. 34-year-old Cathy said that during the period when "Titanic" was on the air, she had many dreams of having crazy sex with the male lead Leonardo DiCaprio in broad daylight, even if her family members discovered it. There was no stopping.

People often have sexual dreams related to celebrities, especially women. Dreaming about having sex with a celebrity actually means that you hope that your partner will have certain qualities embodied by the celebrity, such as bravery or romance. The fact that she did not stop when her family members appeared in her dream indicates that she is very confident in her sexuality.

Dream 5: Dreaming about having sex in your childhood home. 39-year-old Mary dreamed that she had sex with a man in her mother's house, but she didn't like the man and was even disgusted. Many of her sex dreams took place in her childhood home.

Dr. Holloway said that dreaming about your childhood home indicates that current sexual concepts are greatly influenced by the family, and also indicates a desire to return to a simpler life in childhood. Dreaming about having sex with someone you hate indicates that you may have encountered some difficulties that you have to face in reality and you need to communicate with the people around you.

Dream 6: Dreaming about having an affair. 31-year-old Liz has dreamed of having affairs with her husband's brother or best friend many times. In the dream, sex is very natural, and Liz enjoys it extremely. But such a straightforward and real sex dream also made her feel "guilty about cheating."

According to Dr. Spar, this kind of dream does not mean that you want to have an affair. Maybe it's just that your life is too dull. If you have such a dream repeatedly, it means that you are tired of some part of your marriage (not necessarily your sex life). At this time, you should take measures to rekindle the passion of the couple.

Dream 7: Dreaming about old love rekindling. Stephanie, 37, is a mother of two. She often dreams about being passionate and passionate with the tutor she had a crush on in college, and her tutor's profound knowledge and connotation conquered her.

Dr. Cummings says that if we have a strong emotional connection to someone, we may dream about that person in our sexual dreams. Dreaming about an old love is very common, and it may be something that symbolizes your connection with him or her. Stephanie dreamed about her mentor, which means that she misses the youth, freedom and desire for knowledge she had at that stage.

Dream 8: Dreaming about being forced to interrupt sex. Katie, 39, dreamed of having sex with a man she liked, but it ended before she could reach orgasm. She often had sexual dreams like this, and the foreplay was excellent, but it was always interrupted when she was about to climax.

Dr Cummings said this could be a sign that on the one hand Katie's sexual needs were not being met, and on the other hand she was unhappy with the way her life was going. If you always dream about sex being interrupted or unable to reach climax, it may indicate a lack of trust in your lover or a fear of intimate sex.