How do men face "sexual anxiety"? Women often touch very little of men's hearts, and there is too much helplessness, sadness, and bitterness buried in their hearts. If one day, women can really enter the inner world of men, it will be hysterical pain. Let’s introduce the troubles that men face with “sexual problems”!

Every man has "sexual anxiety"

Every man treasures his heart deeply and does not let women touch that virgin land. They have unspeakable pain, that is the real secret. As long as you mention the pain in his heart, uncovering the scars will make a man miserable!

Maybe you blame men for hiding so many secrets. Maybe you think that revealing the secrets is just to give men more understanding and help. But in fact, you are giving him more pressure, which is men’s sexual anxiety. .

Although men appear to be strong and strong on the surface, they actually have sexual anxiety in their hearts, but they are just embarrassed to say it. Men are most afraid of women saying: "You can't do it, are you sick?" As for prostatitis, impotence, premature ejaculation, hair loss, insomnia, kidney failure, heart palpitations, hemorrhoids, etc., they are all bad reputations that men dare not face. Whenever there are introductions about these diseases on TV or radio, men will immediately change the channel without saying anything. What is sexual anxiety? Why does it make men so afraid? Lets come look.

Sexual anxiety and fantasies

Sexual anxiety is an emotional state of anxiety, worry and uneasiness about sexual behavior, which is also accompanied by autonomic symptoms such as palpitation and sweating, muscle tension, and movement uneasiness. Patients with sexual anxiety will feel involuntarily nervous and anxious during sexual intercourse (or even just thinking about sexual intercourse). Sometimes the anxiety will be triggered by kissing, hugging or being touched by the opposite sex. The phenomena such as rapid heartbeat and sweating that occur at this time are different from the physiological reactions produced by the sexual behavior itself, because it carries obvious discomfort and helplessness.

One theory is that a man fantasizes about sex every six minutes and only thinks about it when he's busy doing it. After thinking about it every 6 minutes for 6 days, men begin to need to do something about it, but few women know about men’s sexual anxiety. Many men have wondered how big an erection can get before they even have a chance to put their penis to the test. They keep reassuring themselves that size doesn't matter - "it's not how big it is, it's how you use it". But in fact, the problem of size has always troubled them. If the issue of blame is not dealt with, sexual anxiety will accompany a man throughout his life.

Sexual anxiety is not scary

Maybe you think that sexual anxiety is a scourge. Maybe when you know that your boyfriend or husband has sexual anxiety, you feel that you will be a widow for the rest of your life. Maybe you will choose to leave... In fact, there is no need to be so panicked, because every man Everyone suffers from sexual anxiety, but it’s only severe when the situation is severe.

In most cases, people with sexual anxiety have normal sexual excitement and orgasmic responses, and they also have sexual desires. It's just that they are unable to complete normal sexual intercourse satisfactorily due to inexplicable anxiety reactions, or they reduce sexual intercourse in order to avoid anxiety. To prevent and treat sexual anxiety, necessary sexual knowledge education is very important.

Some men often say that they should go home and do their homework, which means having sex. In a man's mind, having sex with his wife is like giving homework, which is a bit of a coping style, so they are not keen on it. We need to make men feel from the bottom of their hearts that sex is a pleasure, not an operational burden; sex is a natural function that everyone can do naturally without too much anxiety. When couples have sex, they communicate their feelings through words or actions, enjoy sex in a harmonious and stress-free state, and gradually reduce or eliminate sexual anxiety.

Play the role of wife

A wife does not share wealth with a man when he is rich, but shares blessings and hardships. Therefore, when a boyfriend or husband has sexual anxiety, the wife needs to play her own unique role. Only the wife is qualified and capable to do this.

Half of the reasons for men's sexual anxiety come from their wives. Seeing their wives' disappointed expressions when they are unable to reach orgasm puts a lot of pressure on themselves. Therefore, as a wife, don’t complain about your husband’s abnormal performance. It is impossible for every sex to be perfect. Typically, only 40% to 50% of couples have a perfectly harmonious sex life. Your disappointment will only make the man feel more guilty.

When it comes to sex, we can pay attention to some small details, such as preparing a small gift for our partner, playing some popular love songs in the bedroom, unplugging the phone cord to avoid being disturbed, asking the nanny to take the child out, etc., so that we can create a The environment is completely undisturbed and has a romantic atmosphere, which also allows men to have no worries.

When the couple is alone, they can light candles and have dinner, or they can cover their legs with blankets, chat while watching the moon on the balcony, and relive the tenderness of first love... Enjoy sex in a casual way, and the mood is often very relaxed, which can be diluted Pressure can also enhance the intimacy between couples. Only when both husband and wife face it together can a man's sexual anxiety gradually reduce and disappear, and you can enjoy a harmonious and happy sex life.

The above is a way for men to get rid of "sexual anxiety". When a man and a woman are together, they need to have a romantic meal. In the tenderness between the two sexes, the spark of love is likely to be sparked, and "sexual happiness" begins.