The most beautiful things in life are nothing more than the "bridal night" and the "gold list nomination time". The wedding night is something that everyone has to experience in our lives. The wedding night is also beautiful and desirable. Of course, a good night is indispensable for the sex life between husband and wife. Generally, couples will have sex once or several times on the wedding night. If the sex life of both parties is harmonious, it will be great. If it is not harmonious, it will make people very uncomfortable. Embarrassing, what are the five things couples should pay attention to during their sex life on their wedding night?

Five things to pay attention to when having sex on your wedding night

1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take good contraceptive measures

If a man and a woman do not want to have a baby right away and do not take birth control pills, both the couple will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

3. Close cooperation

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, try a few more times. The woman must also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.

4. Prevent inflammation of the damaged hymen

After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly

For the first time, the man may fail to ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.

What should I do if my newlywed sex life is not harmonious?

1. Learn some basic knowledge about sexual life before marriage (including knowledge about the physiological structure of men and women, sexual intercourse process, scientific body postures, precautions, contraception, etc.).

2. During intercourse, both parties should relax mentally and let nature take its course. Excessive tension can easily lead to impotence in men and pain during intercourse in women.

3. Since the woman's sexual response process is much slower than that of the man, and the newlywed wife is shy and sensitive, the man's movements during intercourse should be gentler and slower, and there should be some sweet words, and he should not act too hastily or recklessly.

The above content introduces five things that couples should pay attention to in their sexual life on the wedding night. Do you all understand it? A wedding is an extremely happy event in life, so we should cherish each other's wedding night, master some sexual skills, and create some romantic atmosphere, so that the wedding night will be more harmonious and happy.