Married life has always been a hot topic. In fact, many women are deeply troubled by this topic in life. In fact, married life is also an unavoidable problem in normal married life, and this is also the guarantee of newlywed life. An important guarantee, here are the things that new couples need to pay attention to in their married life.

9 major points that couples should pay attention to in their sexual life

1. Don’t have sex while you’re sick

Those who are suffering from some serious organic diseases and have been told not to have sex by their doctors should not force themselves to have sex; people with tuberculosis are contagious and should also avoid sexual intercourse; especially those with certain sexually transmitted diseases , let alone have sex. If you have sex while you are sick, you will not only suffer yourself, but you will also pass it on to your loved ones, which should be avoided.

2. Don’t have sex while tired

Sex life consumes a certain amount of physical strength and energy. When you are mentally or physically exhausted, having sex often fails to reach a climax and does not yield satisfactory results for both parties. Especially having sex immediately after exertion will damage your health.

3. Don’t do it reluctantly if you are unhappy

Some couples forcefully have sex when one partner is in a bad mood. Not only do they lose the harmony of their sexual life, but they also make the partner who is in a bad mood resentful. If it happens repeatedly, it will lead to sexual frigidity in the woman or impotence in the man.

4. Soothe the skin

After showering, you can take the opportunity to apply moisturizer and massage the skin. You know, there are magical "pleasure nerves" distributed on the skin. Gently touching it can not only make you feel better, but also help balance the secretion of hormones in the body and improve sexual sensitivity. Especially on the back and outside of the arms, the "pleasure nerves" are most distributed, so you might as well apply moisturizer to soothe them.

5. Stretching the uterus

After having sex, your uterus is also in a state of excitement. This is the best time to stretch the uterus, which can warm the uterus and circulate Qi. It not only maintains the uterus, but also improves sexual performance. The method is very simple. You only need to spread your knees, kneel naturally on the bed, then straighten your waist and bend forward as much as possible, so that your face and chest are as close to the bed as possible, and feel the feeling of the uterus stretching along with your body.

6. Shower alternately with hot and cold water

After making love, it is best not to take a bath immediately. However, you can choose to alternately shower with hot and cold water for 5 minutes, which can bring you unexpected benefits. Not only can it stimulate cell regeneration, but it can also improve sexual performance.

7. The frequency of sex should be appropriate

This is a piece of advice for young men and women. In fact, the best thing for a married life is to pay attention not to have too many sexual intercourses and prevent excessive frequency, so as not to affect your health. During the wedding period, the sexual desire is relatively strong, and the requirements for sexual desire are also very sensitive, but it still needs to be well controlled! In the early days of marriage, having sex 3-4 times a week is not too much, so for people with health problems, they should try to reduce their sexual life as much as possible.

8. Reproductive organs should be kept clean

Before you start having sex every time, you must first take a shower, which requires keeping your reproductive organs clean. In addition to taking regular baths, you also need to pay attention to cleaning the external genitals with warm water frequently. They need to be washed again before and after each sexual intercourse. This method can prevent men from periposthitis and balanitis; women can prevent inflammation of reproductive organs and urinary system infections. After sexual intercourse, it is best to urinate immediately.

9. Don’t have sex after drinking

Some people are used to having sex after drinking, and some even think that having sex after drinking will "improve the quality." In fact, drinking alcohol, especially a large amount of hard alcohol, can lead to weak erection or premature ejaculation of the man's penis, hindering a harmonious sexual life; and getting pregnant after drinking can endanger the fetus.