A woman’s painful first night has become something that people take for granted. How does a woman feel during her first night? Do all women really experience severe pain? How many days does it usually hurt during the first night?

The hymen is a natural physiological barrier for the private parts, which can play a certain role in protecting the private environment of young girls. However, this protective effect is not important because rupture does not increase the chance of infection in the private area. Therefore, the hymen is actually just a trace left over from the process of genetic evolution. Many people are born with very shallow traces of the hymen. With growth and development, this membrane is slowly stretched open, and many holes appear. Some holes merge with each other to form large holes, allowing menstrual blood to pass through. When the holes are large, the hymen is basically invisible.

Now let’s explain why most women say “the first time hurts.” In its natural state, the front and back walls of the private part fit very well. When the private part is violated for the first time, the mucous membrane of the private part is stimulated as never before. Our brain must recognize this new touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, the feeling of being stretched, or swelling, If we feel full, it will not cause us to have an emotional reaction of fear; if we have a preset in our minds that the first night will be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, thus making us fearful. Fear, because everyone is afraid of pain; if we have the right expectations for intimate contact, then we will recognize this feeling as a strong stimulation and sensation, which will make us sexually excited. This is something that can be explained with common knowledge of psychology, and is not mysterious.