Having sex for the first time and causing coma due to excessive fear is a "sex phobia". The occurrence of this situation is mainly caused by the lack of sexual knowledge. I usually know very little about sexual life, have an inexplicable fear of sexual activities, and imagine that sexual intercourse is scary, painful, and will cause bleeding.

This kind of fear formed before marriage will make her regard marriage as a helpless burden. In this way, the first sexual intercourse on the wedding night often fails because of the bride's fear.

Some people cannot take the active role in sexual intercourse, but are afraid or worried about sexual intercourse, and cannot experience the pleasure of orgasm, which immediately results in obvious inability to erect the penis. This phenomenon is medically called sexual intercourse. phobia.

A person with sexual intercourse phobia is neither a serious sexual pervert nor a morally corrupt person looking for flowers, but just some abnormalities, and the reasons are relatively complicated. For example, some people do not receive correct education during their sexual development, or receive some strong stimulation, so they cannot form normal sexual roles and find it difficult to complete corresponding sexual role behaviors as adults.

There are two situations: one is lack of parental love, relatively lonely, sexual behavior stays in the "narcissistic" stage, and one gets comfort and satisfaction just from the act of masturbation. The other is strong stimulation. For example, when an elder of the opposite sex was responsible for taking care of an elder who was paralyzed in bed when he was a minor, he had to deal with her urination and defecation. In his mind, he associated the genitals with dirtyness. As an adult, he would Able to interact with normal people, but afraid of seeing genitals and sexual intercourse.

There are also some young people who cannot successfully complete sexual intercourse for the first time due to excessive excitement, fear, and nervousness, resulting in sexual dysfunction. If this man happens to be a timid or anxious person, then the first failure will create an exaggerated impression in the brain - thinking that he is sexually impotent, so that he will become more nervous and afraid of sexual intercourse next time.

So how to prevent and treat sexual phobia. First of all, we must establish such a strong belief:

Human sexual behavior is a natural instinct. I am a person with this ability, just like I can sweat or digest without learning. Before having sex, you should only consider success, not failure, or what you have discovered before. Instead, you should start from this time and decide "I will succeed." With such mental preparation and foundation, half the battle is already won.

Secondly, obtaining consent and consideration is also very important. It is key in the treatment of fear of sexual intercourse. More love must be given to melt this fear. In addition to discussing this topic regularly, couples can also read relevant sexual knowledge books together to understand scientific knowledge and understand normal human sexual reactions. In addition, we should also encourage taking the initiative in sexual life, step by step, and gradually overcome fear.

It is normal for everyone to have fear of sexual intercourse on the first night, but if you have a good understanding before this, you can overcome appropriate psychological barriers.