In your sexual life, you must pay attention to contraceptive work, and condoms are the most commonly used contraceptive method, but you must pay attention to their correct use, otherwise they will not have a contraceptive effect, and may also cause some adverse effects during sex. Influence. What misunderstandings should you pay attention to when using condoms? How do men choose condoms that suit them?

Three misunderstandings about using condoms

Myth 1: Condoms will reduce male pleasure.

This is the most common excuse men give for not using condoms. Many women also believe it, only to regret it in the end. The latest authoritative research has found that condoms have little impact on men's pleasure.

Expert guidance: Don’t look at condoms with “colored glasses”. Not only does it not affect pleasure, some condoms with special functions, such as those with threads, floating points, ultra-thin types, etc., can help reduce worries. Enhance fun and pleasure.

Myth 2: Wearing a condom when you are passionate is embarrassing.

Many people believe that stopping to put on a condom when both parties are emotionally high and inseparable will "disgrace the scenery" and make people lose their mood for sex. In fact, unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases are the real "desire killers", making people full of worry and unable to invest.

Expert guidance: Wearing a condom can be regarded as part of foreplay. It will be a very interesting part for women to put on the condom for their partner with their delicate hands, and then gently caress and tease them.

Myth 3: Condoms should be carried with you at all times.

Although this can help you prepare for emergencies, it is not advisable most of the time. Because condoms need to be stored properly to stay "safe." If stored in a hot and humid environment, it will become thin and brittle and prone to holes and tears.

Expert tip: Store condoms in a safe, dry and cool environment whenever possible. In fact, it is very convenient to buy condoms now. You don’t have to carry them with you and you can avoid embarrassment.

How do men choose suitable condoms?

1. Measure the length before buying a set

There are three types of condoms in my country, the large diameter is 35 mm, the medium diameter is 33 mm and the small diameter is 31 mm. In most cases, the most suitable size for men in our country is medium. However, clinically, we often see that some men use condoms that are too tight, which blocks blood circulation in the penis, leading to hypoxia of tissues and nerves in the penis, injury to the corpus cavernosum, and even weakness and inability to lift the penis. Some people buy condoms that are too large, which can easily cause the condom to fall off and semen to leak out, reducing the contraceptive effect. Therefore, when men choose condoms, it is best to measure the diameter of the penis first, including when it is flaccid and when it is erect.

When measuring, the room temperature is best around 25 degrees Celsius, after you have calmed down and taken a proper rest. Lift the penis flat with your hands, use one end of a hard ruler to hold against the pubic symphysis, and the other end to the external orifice of the glans urethra as the benchmark. This is the normal length of the penis. When erect, apply a thin wire around the middle of the fully erect penis, then measure the length of the wire to get the penis circumference, and then divide it by 3.14 to get the penis diameter. This result is closest to the actual data.

2. Don’t use ultra-thin condoms to ejaculate quickly

At the same time, the thickness of condoms also has a great impact on men's psychology.

The thicker the condom, the lower the sensitivity of the male penis during sexual life. The greater the distance between himself and his lover, and the worse the natural feeling. It's like everyone doesn't like wearing thick gloves to grab things. Today, there are three main types of condoms: ultra-thin, thin and regular. Among them, the thickness of the ultra-thin condoms is 0.03 mm, the thickness of the ordinary condoms is 0.04-0.06 mm, and the thin condoms are somewhere in between. A study in the United States showed that for every 0.01 mm decrease in thickness, men's comfort level will increase by 20%. No wonder men particularly favor ultra-thin products.

However, ultra-thin condoms are not suitable for everyone. For those men who ejaculate quickly, are elderly and have poor self-control, they should still use thicker condoms. This is helpful to control ejaculation, extend the time of sexual life, and enable both parties to fully enjoy the pleasure of fish and water.

In addition, it is recommended that men buy condoms in small packages and new from the factory. On the one hand, it can ensure that it is used up as soon as possible within the shelf life to avoid excessive absorption of lubricant by latex. On the other hand, if it is uncomfortable to wear, you can abandon it without much loss. Importantly, this also ensures that condoms are frequently changed to add spice to sex life.