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Breakup: Not loving is the only reason

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I summarized this message for a good friend after a failed relationship. Of course, many people cannot experience three love relationships in their lifetime, or have not experienced three love relationships so far, including myself, so I have not yet experienced the sadness, pain and helplessness of being tortured by love to such an extent.

Today, an editor from a publishing house asked me to write a manuscript. I accidentally opened the manuscript again and read some of it in one go. The words written a few years ago gave me a new understanding today. Such a sense of loss, how could I write such a bleak text in the first place, it is hard to suffocate. This book was written in the second semester of my freshman year, when I met my first girlfriend, and the previous content of this book is a true portrayal. Of course, three years have passed and everything is gone, and we have been separated for about 10 months. Our results are not as heroic and beautiful or miserable as in the novel. But now that I think about it, as long as it is the results in the novel, it is easier for me to accept them, as they are always better than those in reality.

But after all, the matter has passed, and it is useless to think about it again. Love is not like doing business, let alone playing games. If you lose money on a transaction, you may have a new opportunity when you wake up the next morning. If you lose the game, you can press restart to start over. And love is already a huge shadow in my heart. Although I have never experienced three relationships, I find that love has made me feel like I am living in an abyss that will never see the light of day. I tried to struggle and climb up, but in the end I found that I was sinking deeper and deeper, and the situation was getting worse day by day.

Just now, a friend I met a few years ago said that she has known a man for 6 years, but recently the boy said that he wanted to go abroad and wanted to give himself freedom and live alone. This girl said that she can't help but always contact him, ask him to meet, and even hold hands, but I always feel that this relationship is not long-term.

I feel that going abroad and freedom are just excuses to deceive oneself and others. A pair of lovers who are in love and have been lovers for many years cannot break up just because of these trivial reasons. The only reason for breaking up is to no longer be together. In love. If you are still in love, I don't think there is any threshold that you can't overcome, let alone a 6-year relationship.

Six years is a long period of time for love. How can a 6-year relationship be broken off at the drop of a hat? In fact, it is not my own personal experience. We have no right to make irresponsible remarks, because love is not as simple as we think, but I always believe that true love can save everything.

Sometimes, when facing a breakup, the lovelorn person always seems to have lost his mind and always thinks that the other person still loves him. I feel the same way. When we broke up, I was like a headless fly for a while. I kept pressing her number every day with my mobile phone, but I didn't have the courage to call her because I was afraid of my own appearance. It will disturb her. But when we love deeply, we cannot get out of a relationship so easily. Unless I don’t love you anymore.

Many people think that as a man, you have to be able to take up and let go, and face love bravely, but I think there is no gender distinction in love, and the loss after a breakup is not exclusive to women. , Tears are not a weapon used by women to vent.

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